Astarion's Half Brother's Topics (492)

I agree

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What's wrong with me then, I feel like it's not realistic at all o_O

Dungeons and live play exists just not known openly, what else do you feel unrealistic?

The author said that they are a part of it???? Where??? How did i even miss it?

They are just assuming that author MIGHT be a part of bdsm and they wouldn't be surprised because of how realistic the story is

maybe you're not used to it

Oh i see.

Sorry my bad i didnt even read the comment properly like a fucking idiot

It was more about the relationship between the main characters, but maybe I'm just not used to it as someone else said :)

Yeah can be. I would suggest you to read some more stories related to bdsm and not the casual ones, the bdsm focused stories, you will often this strong dynamic between the dom and sub


One bl I can suggest is: My partner's kink and fetishes

My partner's tastes and fetishes*

Thanks for the suggestion ! :)

I think that's what she's fishing for though. She must know that Camilla is prone to outbursts so she's provoking her hoping that Camilla would abuse her, making her look like a victim that everybody would want to protect

agree

There is a trigger warning right b4 you read the manga on the translators credit page, no one ever read those pages thou makes me feel sad

I read that, and I mean a trigger warning in the main landing page before you even read the manga, like maybe in the tags or something. If you're already 9 chapters deep into a manga and suddenly saw a trigger that you don't like on chapter 10, it would not feel great bcs you can't continue to read them even though you're curious on the continuation of the story

There have been trigger warnings every step of the way. Assault, bullying, r@pe etc. If you didn't like the triggers you could've easily left the story. Don't complain even after seeing the warning and choosing to ignore it.. If it made you that icky, you could've dropped it.

Fr lol but he thinks he knocked her up & had to get married before she started showing

Me too, I thought that everyone in the royal family was kinky so he would allow his son to be with someone to match his freak also to avoid the rumors if married to get wrong woman.... I even thought the empresses diary held all the secrets on freaky kinky activities

That was their first time, with both of them having no experience other than their own fantasy and what they read in a book, of course it's gonna look clumsy and sloppy

If I have a penny for every time someone look at BDSM play and call it rape, I'd be a billionaire by now

I’m sorry, but you’re the one who doesn’t know what consent is. Consent can be revoked at any time by any party, why? Because situations can change, and if they do then you have the right to say “I don’t want to do this anymore.” Or if you just don’t want to do it anymore, you can also do that too. You have that right over your own body. You can’t just “establish consent” and have it be permanent, whoopsie no take-backs you agreed to this. Thats manipulative. Yes of course a girls first time is most likely gonna hurt, but that’s the point. It hurt, she tried to endure it at first but when he started moving she realized it hurt immensely more and ask him to stop. He didn’t. That’s why people are having this conversation of . The exact definition is muddy, I’m not here to argue that, but you can’t deny that she revoked consent (as is her human right) and he didn’t listen. To anyone reading this, please know you can revoke consent at ANY time, for ANY reason, because you own your own body and not anyone else.

I’m sorry, but you’re the one who doesn’t know what consent is. Consent can be revoked at any time by any party, why? Because situations can change, and if they do then you have the right to say “I don’t want to do this anymore.” Or if you just don’t want to do it anymore, you can also do that too. You have that right over your own body. You can’t just “establish consent” and have it be permanent, whoopsie no take-backs you agreed to this. Thats manipulative. Yes of course a girls first time is most likely gonna hurt, but that’s the point. It hurt, she tried to endure it at first but when he started moving she realized it hurt immensely more and ask him to stop. He didn’t. That’s why people are having this conversation of . The exact definition is muddy, I’m not here to argue that, butr you can’t deny that she revoked consent (as is her human right) and he didn’t listen. To anyone reading this, please know you can revoke consent at ANY time, for ANY reason, because you own your own body and not anyone else.

I understand that consent can be revoked at any times, that is under the umbrella of safe words. This is their first BDSM play, and in such plays simply saying stop doesn't always mean they want to stop, that's why we have safe words that got nothing to do with sex (example: pineapple, blueberry) to serve as a code when we truly want to stop. That's why I said since it's their first time it's going to look clumsy and sloppy, maybe even reckless. Adding to that, both parties were too immersed in their lust and desire to think rationally, it can happen sometimes especially during the first few times of having sex when you haven't been able to control your sex drive. They haven't even finished their first play yet, so I think it's too soon to say that this specific scene (where she ask to stop and he didn't listen) can be considered as . Maybe wait until the end and we can circle back on this being a possible ?