
the whole “people have been through worse” advice is bullshit. Someone’s sadness and pain should not be compared to another’s and undermine another person. Sure you can argue that some people are dramatic or that you can’t compare a parents death to a broken bone but all in all don’t undermine someone because they haven’t been through what someone else has been through. I hope this makes sense because it’s happened so many times when I say something negative and someone either has to one up me by saying “yeah but this happened to me” etc.
Giovanni is baby