
You might think she's selfish now but its actually better for her to settle her past trauma first before jumping into relationships with him (eventhought its mutual)
Because her trauma can haunt her back and ruin their new relationship and i don't think third try is possible anymore.

uhmmm...i didn't talk shit about ML tho?
I said i understand why he had to distance himself, after what he gone through. His action is not wrong at all.
I'm only saying that we also need to understand that FL is still dealing with her trauma and diving into relationships only tend to break it rather than secure it.

None of the lead make mistake, the FL is having trauma from the past, she's stress so she couldn't make a quick decision. Its actually understandable. It might be a bit frustrating but the author really good to convey her worry that i don't blame her. Its actually pretty fit with real life. And as of the ML, its very reasonable for him to act that way, and actually its good from keeping him from hurting more. Tho his reaction really break my heart ╥﹏╥
Wait the third guy is ABSOLUTELY my favorite lol