hi i’m a girl and im absolutely obsessed with yaoi. it started off with me just reading some stuff because it was popular on tiktok and i wanted to join the hate train but i loved it so much. i don’t want to fetishize gay men or anything but im engrossed with reading yaoi. i’m literally such a basic normal girl irl too and even have a boyfriend but oh my god every night i open up this god forsaken website and read insane amounts of yaoi and if that isn’t enough to satisfy my needs i move to ao3 and consume even more mlm media. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY IM LIKE THIS. genuinely i’ve tried taking a break but i can’t go more than 2 days without coming back here. i really need someone to like reassure me im not alone or insane because im so fucking normal irl but online im such a weirdo and i feel so alone and gross
Yaoi is an interesting genre to read so I can see why a lot of peeps read it . Personally I like the romance more then straight romance.
I'm a guy so I can't actually encourage u lmao .
This is so me like I used to open this website like multiple times a day and I’m so embarrassed because I don’t want to fetishise gay men either but the stories I read on here really kept me hooked.Recently tho I haven’t been reading as much or finding as many things interesting on here so Im thinking it’s a phase of sorts for me - I’m not out of it yet and I don’t think I will be for a while - and I do think it’s like slowly becoming more uninteresting, so maybe it’s just a phase??? Idk honestly I hope it is and I loose interest in yaoi soon or later so it might be a phase for you too
U are not alone..not alone
If you're reading them bc of the smut I will tell you it's a porn addiction but if not I just think it's a hyperfixation
Tbh I was also compulsively reading BL last year and thought I was a horrible person for it, couple moths later I got hooked w some TV shows and started compulsively watching a lot of shows at once and stuff, it clicked after that I just don't know how to regulate myself when I like smth lmao
Ngl you’re one of the tame yaoi fans out there. we all gonna die one day might as well
Ok wtf
This is so real lmfaoo ive been there and I realized i had a yaoi porn addiction bc of how much sex scenes id reread until i became self aware. It honestly just takes time and another hobby to enjoy to lessen that intensity and eventually you’ll find a healthier fixiation
NGL Reading Yaoi with how much sex scenes I've seen literally helped me with my class subject like that was the only thing I actually understood it so easily which also makes it that I have a prn addiction
As long as ur not being weird to gay people irl then ur fine lol I once had a friend who would say they saw "yaoi" irl when they saw 2 dudes holding hands or just being close to each other
LMAOOO thas crazyy
imo, I don't think reading yaoi necessarily means fetishizing gay men because while I enjoy fictional yaoi, I'm cautious about projecting those same feelings onto irl gay people.. it would be weird to do that. For me, I enjoy reading bl simply because I find it entertaining. I also read to kill some the time when I'm bored. moreover, I sometimes don't read bl just for smut scenes bcs it depends on what genre of yaoi u read, in my situation, exploring different bl genres expand my understanding of relationships. It's ok to enjoy things, unless u're not hurting anyone.
If u want to lessen ur time using this web or js reading yaoi in general, u can try liking new hobbies, or something diff to enjoy, in that way, you'll eventually stop reading yaois at some time wo realizing it. I have alternative interests so i dont rlly get fixated on js reading bl, and it works perfectly fine for me.
Reading yaoi can also be a phase, yk? I think I go through this sometimes because when I start to enjoy reading bl again, I might stop for a few months. This usually happens when I feel there's nothing interesting to read. But I always eventually come back to it like nothing happened (ㆁωㆁ)
As long as you don’t project on real gay men then I don’t see the issue. Too much of anything may be bad tho so I guess delve into different genres or find something outside of reading yaoi to do
Bro idk why but it’s so hard to find GLs with a good plot, no pedophilia, and NOT on a prolonged hiatus. Any good recommendations (either completed or ongoing) with W smut? Looking for something modern, not a big fan of historical AU
W a moment
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/just_right_there/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/program_me/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sora_haena/
Smut at the end
Maybe i have more on my list but i was too lazy to look further + i honestly don't read much smut. But maybe i was able to rec u smth
This is my sign to read Just Right There idk why I’ve been putting it off but THANK YOU
im SICK and TIRED of bl taking over my page... what are some good gl recs that wont make me want to gauge my fucking eyes out and has a good ending
this one is pretty new but easily my fav.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_fed_up_office_lady_wants_to_serve_the_villainess/
i was on the yaoi grind and then found out i got into the honors program for my nursing school plz be proud of me
Proud of you son, fly high!
Ckngratss love
WOW CONGRATS IM JELLY
Omg cutie so proud of you!!! You did amazing!!!
CONGRATS! That's so exciting, work hard!
i love seeing mangagoers win