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I think he mentioned sleep paralysis, meaning he couldn't move or wake up as he wished

No but you'll have weird, hot and wet dreamssss hahahahhahahahahhaha

"Fall asleep" while someone is doing that, No. But if your body is touched while you are in deep REM sleep, absolutely. Your brain reduces the sensitivity of your nerve endings that respond to touch while you are in REM sleep and it also severely reduces your ability to move. This is done to ensure that sleep is not disturbed by the touch of clothing, sheets or the surface you are sleeping on and the reduced movement is to prevent a sleeper from getting up and acting out the dreams they experience while in REM sleep. The protagonist also mentions "sleep paralysis" which is when a person is no longer in REM sleep and is beginning to return to consciousness, but their body is still paralyzed as if they were deep in REM sleep. The person is in a state of partial consciousness, where their sense of touch returns but the paralysis is not lifted. Those sensations are often translated into their dreams, giving some people quite scary nightmares. The weight of a blanket coupled with the sensation of paralysis can translate into your dreams as a monster sitting on your chest and making you unable to move. My son suffers from both night terrors and sleep paralysis. His body is irregular in it's ability to both keep him paralyzed during REM sleep and lifting paralysis when he is coming out of REM sleep. So, he will sometimes thrash around while dreaming or get up and sleep-walk (night terrors) and other times he will partially wake up, only to find himself unable to move (sleep paralysis).

So, yeah, if a person is deep in REM sleep, they may not notice being touched or it will simply translate into something they experience in a dream. This is especially the case for someone who has been sleep deprived and is finally getting to rest fully in REM sleep. If you only get short naps - under 90 minutes at a time - you never reach REM sleep. It takes around 45 minutes to reach REM sleep and takes 45 minutes to come out of REM sleep. So, even a 90 minute nap never lets your body fully experience REM sleep long enough. The body requires REM sleep, it is when the brain "defrags" like a computer and the immune system rejuvenates itself by "restocking" white blood cells. That is why you can get sick from lack of sleep and you can even go insane. After 3 days without sleep, you can experience hallucinations, memory loss, disorientation and lack of sensation in your limbs. Your body will even force you into REM sleep where you are awake but experiencing everything as if it were a dream. You are conscious and unconscious at the same time. It is a very dangerous situation. Your eyes are open, you are moving and talking, but your brain is asleep. Which means your reactions are slow, your decision making skills are absent, pain receptors are dulled and your impulse control is gone. Everything your brain does to keep you safe is asleep. Yet, your body is moving about.

Oh wow. That was really interesting. I would try it out but I don't want to put myself in danger.

Well ask ur boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife to do it to you.... say its for an important project, we need samples... dont forget to keep us posted :D ;)

I think they meant going without sleep for extended periods of time. LOL Having someone do such hot and wonderful things to you while asleep would only be dangerous if they did it without prior consent and you woke up swinging. LOL

If you mean going without sleep, I have chronic insomnia and I don't recommend it. The longest I have gone is 5 days and I experience visual and aural hallucinations, numbness, disorientation and I have even had waking dream moments just before my body just gave up and passed out. If you're referring to masturbating on your lover's face while they sleep, just wait about 45 minutes to an hour after their breathing becomes slow, steady and rhythmic. They are in REM sleep at that point. Also, look at their eyes. If they seem to be looking around under their eyelids, moving around quickly, they are in REM sleep. That is what REM stands for - Rapid Eye Movement. Unless they are an extremely light sleeper, you should be fine. LOL

*Their eyes will be moving around quickly beneath their eyelids* Sorry, that didn't come out right the first time. LOL

Oh lol, how could missed that.^^ thank u :D
Yeah, but how are they going to ask for consent when u are sleeping :D
well I guess we have to mention it:
hey dear, btw its totally ok, when u get all horny to attack me in my sleep. :D I welcome it :D

I guess if you do have that kind of conversation it would count as prior consent. Personally, I think those kinds of seemingly silly conversations are important. I tell my husband about all my crazy sexual fantasies. If I don't tell him, how will he know, right? But, then again, I'm not shy and I have no shame! LMAO

Yes, I meant going without sleep bc I think it would be interesting to experience the state I would be in but as you also wrote, I don't want to pass out or something like this. Another reason why I think I couldn't do it is because I'm a really sleepy person (like I only slept 6 hours last night and I'm tired again rn).
Since I don't masturbate at all, I wouldn't masturbate on my lover's face but the thought of me doing so is really amusing. That reminds me ...my bf and me wanted to try whether one wakes up when being stimulated or not...either he tried and I didn't wake up or we both forgot .....hm ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Even though I didn't mean that, I will ask my boyfriend to do so :D Since we wanted to do it one day anyway and just forgot (I hope it's not just me that forgot) (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

LOL Your last statement was too cute!

Being unconscious and conscious at the same time is an interesting experience. More like bizarre and scary, especially when it is over and you are remembering it.

I've never masturbated on a sleeping partner either because if they aren't watching it's not much fun. I have stimulated partners awake though. I have also been stimulated awake. If you're not usually in a good mood when you wake it might make your mood better or it might make you more irritable. LOL

I am so jealous! T-T

LOL I'm assuming you are young and I am sure you are much younger than me (since I am an old grandma! LOL ) so you have plenty of time to experience these things yourself. Even if you are in a relationship and that hasn't been something you've done yet, discussing your desires openly and honestly can yield wonderful benefits. You never know, your partner may also be secretly wishing for the same thing! LOL

well, I am not soooooo young as u think. :D
Attacking BF in his sleep never crossed my mind. :D UNTIL NOW!!!

Unless you are over 50, you're still young compared to me! LMAO

I wish you the best in your newly found endeavors. I've only had one partner (of many... So shameful ╥﹏╥) who did not initially enjoy my early morning ministrations to induce waking. However, even he eventually enjoyed it. (▰˘◡˘▰) I also hope the favor is reciprocated in kind. There is nothing like starting the day feeling like your lover had you on his mind all night... and all morning! LOL

。+゜(*´>艸<｀*)。+゜