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I think Yule likely has borderline personality disorder with core psychopathic traits. He was traumatized by his mother’s death and growing up, everyone ostracized/blamed him for it. So yeah, his developed concept of receiving and giving love was broken. He has a tendency to destroy things/relationships whenever he is aware of their significance to him. He lost his mother whom he grew very attached to, so with his reasoning, he would rather destroy something precious to him before he loses it likely to avoid pain from the loss. My guess is that he started to grow attached to Kyung Soo or that he was starting to have feelings for him, so out of fear of losing him, decided to break Kyung Soo and drive him away with the gang rape. That or, he orchestrated the gang rape to test Kyung Soo’s love for him and plainly to see if he could do it. I think his borderline tendencies make him unstable and obsessive with Kyung Soo in a way that he always feel “empty” or like an empty being that requires Kyung Soo to fill his sense of self. He has an intense fear of Kyung Soo abandoning him, so he went through whatever means (rape, manipulation/blackmail) to chain or make Kyung Soo stay with him.

I think borderline and psychopathic traits complement each other, but do share one similarity: emotional dysregulation and Yule is a model example of that with his impulsivity and pretty much solving things with rape and manipulation/blackmail. Of course, the author prolly just made Yule as evil as you could get without actually giving him a specific mental illness...

But I think pretty much, Yule is like: I fear growing attached to someone/something and if that gets taken away from me, I rather destroy it first than lose it later on to avoid the pain that would come with that loss. Then after that someone/something precious to me is gone, fear of abandonment comes in and I need to do everything I can to get back and tie that person/thing to me. Like a yo-yo, back and forth.

Sorry for the long response, Yule is essentially a psychopathic ass, haha (⌒▽⌒).

wow :))) I was thinking the same thing, well, sort of :'> nice explanation btw <3

yeah same I always idolized my brother when I was a kid and it kinda weirded people, but like still incest is strange

they’re just envious that even a woman who’s considered masculine is considered more of a woman than they are...even if ayumi is masculine she still has a womanly body and it makes them more aware of how unfeminine they are. yuji isn’thating on her it’s more of them projecting their self hate
just having those thoughts are normal it’s not as if they outrightly are acting on anything so why should you feel disgusted?just because someone isn’t perfect doesn’t be mean they don’t deserve sympathy

Maybe if he focused on his own life and happiness he wouldn't be so misreble , he too focus on other people lives and what they gonna say

Also just him envious women for having women body is like how fat people hate on fit and skinny people cuz they have good body while they not , just like how fit people work to get perfect body while fat peoplr don't , he also have not made any effort to change his life for better and want to find someone to blame .. and by the way that girl is in no way masculine she ver feminine and cute even before she wear skirt or put make up .

Are we reading the same manga? Point out the exact page and chapter where it indicates Yuji blames others for being for her being trans? Being jealous and blaming someone are two completely different things. Does the girl Yuji ONCE thought something mean about deserve that sort of negativity? No. But do I think you are being way too critical towards Yuji because of it? Yes.

And you say Yuji should just "focus on his own life and happiness" But how? Do you think coming out is easy? Do you know how trans people are treated? The violence instigated towards them? The suicide rate? The lack of acceptance from family and friends? The denial of its existence? I honestly doubt it since you think all Yuji's problems will go away if she "just too focused on what other people are gonna say"

P.S trans people's envy of cis people is in NO WAY similar to fat people hating on thin people because they're jealous. Your ignorance is astounding.

Buddy who are you, you say excactly what i want to say. The MC did nothing wrong to deserve this negativity at all.

I don’t know how things are in your country but it’s not that easy coming out as a transgender especially here in Japan. Sure they appear in TV but it’s only acceptable because it’s TV. We have a saying in Japan “a needle that sticks out should be hammered back in” meaning that everyone should stick to the normal social standards and those who do not will be treated as trash until they are forced to stick with it. In Japan if you are even a little bit different from everyone else you are automatically a freak and treated as trash. I should know been there done that. I’m a very outspoken person and I always voice out my opinions but that is not accepted here so I was often warned by my teachers and my classmates would ignore and try to bully me (although I thwarted all of their attempts so the bullying did stop but that was because I happened to be a incredibly thick skinned person who doesn’t give a damn about what society thinks about me and I had a family who will always support me no matter what happens). Those kind of things happened just because I was a little different from everyone else now imagine what it would be like to be someone from the LGBT community. They are mercilessly bullied not only by their classmates but by the teachers, the whole entire school and even by society. They are treated like they are some sort of germs that nobody wants to catch. In lots of cases they are even chased out by their families. In such a close minded society it’s difficult for people to come out.

I doubt it I can’t find any

its the final arc so yeah the end is near

Do you think they might continue story with toka and kanaki child like boruto ?

Just read that the hiatus just ended, but there will probably be several more breaks before this arc ends. Just read up to the last arc.

I see no reason why they should be polygamous. It isn't for everyone and having a shit ton of offspring isn't everything. Also, the thing with fated partners is that, they only really desire each other, that's just how it works in this universe.

Also, your comment kind of sound like what some misogynistic people use against women...like if you were to replace "omega" with "woman" and "alpha" with "man"...

I think you're wrong about the object of the debate
here it's more -science vs social culture- than -science vs women-
Since even when they are bound to their fated partners alphas react to omega pheromones + they can be bound to several omegas while omegas can't, it seems that what sakurakou said is not so silly.
In my opinion, this mysogynistic drama only exists because of the value you accord in men nature vs in women nature.

It is a bit silly because like I said, everyone is different and have different values.
That person said there is "no reason" for them to be monogamous. If that is something they and their partner wants, that should be reason enough.

An alpha in a fated pair can't be bound to anyone else (at least after they have found their fated one), they can only be bound to that person.

Also, I think that person forgets, there are more alphas then there are omegas (who are supposed to be pretty rare). Not every alpha can have a lot of them.

oh yeah I understood your point of view but you misunderstood about something : this post was about biology, not sexual preferences. I just felt like it was unfair to bring the mysogynistic accusation since what said the post is not wrong from a genetical perspective (I mean, concerning real world). I may be wrong but for me there can't be sexism when we talk about biology.

Concerning omegaverse, alpha can be bound to several omegas (ex : Romantic Joutou) but it may be a rule depending on the author.

Besides, "everyone has different values etc" is really an annoying statement, you know. It will make me angry ^^* Seriously, it makes no sense on a science discuss, there are norms.

This rings true, even though women and omegas are not exactly the same, it sounds like the same kind of discrimination (not necessarily in a bad way) and categorizing.

The approach sakurakou suggested does make logical sense to a limited extent, but also shows their lack of empathy. Fictional as these characters may be they are portrayed to have feelings of their own and that kind of setting is not something many would happily go along with.

a lack of empathy?
If some people were hurt, I would agree with this choice of words, but here, the only risk is to anger them just because they heard about an other opinion than the common opinion they chose to embrace.
But, it would be boring and we would never call ourselves in question if they weren't controversial opinions. I would rather see it as useful for public purpose rather than a lack of empathy.

Well... it would be a bit helpful if you wrote in a more direct manner, so I could respond to a specific topic more appropriately, but I'll try to regardless.
Firstly, risk of angering who? The omegas? i don't think out of all the possible emotions anger would be the main one they'd feel, more like sadness, jealousy, a bit of hate for their situation at hand, things most people in polygamous relationships experience, especially if its polygamous only for one party.
And about that public purpose, which i don't quite understand. If you mean it would be useful for their society i beg to disagree. Because since the secondary sex is an inheritable trait, that would make the majority of the next generations omegas be related not just amongst themselves but also to the alphas that are born under those circumstances, drastically limiting the choices in partners for both.
Therefore even in this universe, polygamy might not be a solution, both functionaly and emotionally.

I KNEW IT, I missed the notif of your answer. I'm sorry, the update made me remember our discussion. If you're still on mangago, I will try to clarify it, I don't want to let something so messy in my love story with mangago :
Yes, I expressed myself really badly about the "lack of empathy". I suppose you were just talking about the empathy towards the omegas condition of living while I was extending it to the monogamous people who could have read the original post. I'm used to see people getting angry about the idea of multiple partners. Sorry again, it was easy to guess what you were talking about, but you know, it was exam time and all... ^^
But still, I can't agree with the risk of consanguinity you're talking about for the omegaverse. In a sense we're all related by blood since the beginning, and look how Joffrey Baratheon was an healthy kid xDDD no, I really have some serious reasons that I would like to be destroyed, but time passed since our discussion and you may have forgotten. I will be here if you want to continue, or else see you later maybe ; )