Have you guys experienced sexual harassment, because I'm going through something right now. Recently I mentioned that I was ready to start dating again (it's been over a year since my last relationship) to my family. I live with my mother, brother, and my brother's friend who has lived with us for several years now. A few years ago I had a freinds with benefits relationship with my brother's friend and I ended it because I didn't want that kind of a relationship anymore (my brother and mother never knew). The friend then proceeded to send me disturbing text msg and would come into my room when I was sleeping and beg me to have sex with him. I refused him and told him off countless times and for the last few months, he has not bothered me. However, when I said I was ready to start dating again, I found that my vibrator disappeared. I have literally turned my room over to try and find it, but the only conclusion I can come up with, is that my brother's friend took it and I'm just frustrated and so violated and I just need to tell someone about it because I don't want to tell my mom or brother because I am ashamed and disgusted by the sexual relationship I had this guy. (If you read this whole thing, thanks, I appreciate it =)
I have personally never been in such a situation, and I don’t know how old you are.
However, no matter your age, I would honestly speak to whichever family member that you live with you’re closest with about this. At the end of the day, it’s your family home and your brothers friend is a stranger (in the sense that he’s not family), so I believe that unless you’re not very close with your family they would take your side. Parents in particular are very protective over their children no matter how old they get. (If you are under 18 though, I strongly advise you to speak to your parents about this). If you’re closer with your brother than your parents, maybe try speaking to him.
The fact that this friend has been taking advantage of your family by living in your home for years and being confident enough to do that to you in your own home is horrible.
It is very much unfair that you’re being made to feel this way in your own home and I hope you’ll be alright.
Thank you
id confront ur brothers friend, make him uncomfortable too!
I have personally never gone through this, but I agree with this person. It's always better to speak with you family, whoever you're closest with and whoever you are sure will have your back.
Can you put a locker on your bedroom door ? That's maybe the simplest way to talk about your unnease and the situation to your family : you could tell them you want a lock on that door and After a brief silence , you explain why (because you had unwanted visits during the night.) Visits with plural !!! That should be enough to make their skin crawl. _ if it's not possible to lock your door when you are going out of the house, normally it's very easy to install a locker so that you can have your own private and undistirbed space for the night. _ yes your family should know. _ I send you plenty of courage . And in the meantime you could also put a chair , a bag , etc.etc. in the way between your door and where you sleep. That way you will hear if someone comes and they will hit their toes in the dark ^^ _
I also have another trick for you that I have used when i had to share a bed with someone while I was truly exhausted so I wasn't sure that I would be able to communicate clearly and be assertive to them in the middle of the night (I hate being waken up by a man) so I have used a big cloth to.drape myself so as to make myself a long skirt, with 2 layers of drape and a strong double node at the waist, made with the corners of the drape. The guy thought I had interesting taste but it was for my peace of mind and safety. This is in case you don't feel safe and you cannot have a locker instantly. _ of course you can also prépare yourself about what to tell him if he comes back but , the practical tips will assist you even if you are drained/ exhausted / too tired to communicate . ___
i am sending you lots of love. Xxx
Door lock, change it. And camera that captures the entrance, evidence. Most importantly, consult with family. They won't choose the guy over you<3
Do you guys have any recommendations like My Fair Footman? Stuff where the woman dresses as a boy?
Why is so much of shoujo manga stuff like I became the villan or I died and was reincarnated or I came from another world or a combo of all three?!
PLS
FR
Idk but I actually love em
fr almost all of them are cliche but I can’t stop reading them help
Yeah it was fun in 2019 but at this point I'm Ben Affleck smoking meme
LMAO YOU DID NOT JUST-
For those of you who have read Love or Hate, can you guys give me spoilers? Like my anxiety don't like the drama, but I wanna read it. ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ So who does Haesoo end up with and all the betrayal in between? JUAT GIVE ME ALL THE SPOILERS (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Endgame
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is Joowon
thee brotherr!! (≧∀≦)
I regret reading it
Don't mind me ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
Have ya'll read enough manga/webtoon to know that when a sex scene starts, you just know you're reaching the end of chapter and its gonna be a cliffhanger?
yes and it sucks ass :[
Do you guys have pets? Or want a pet?
I used to have. ╥﹏╥
What about you?
Yes, i have 2 dogs
We have 4 dogs
I had 5 Guinea pigs.. Its sad that they don't live long.. So I stopped having any kind of pets to save myself from the sadness when they die（￣へ￣）
i want a cat
I have a cow. She's a dwarf and her name is Sunny. Thanks for asking (⌒▽⌒)
Wow
I relate so much TT
If one thing I want is a dog a big one and that’s the only thing they are never gettting me
Fuck life
Just move from your home than get a dog if you're not broke like me ╥﹏╥
Yes I have 6 dogs. We used to have 14. If I calculate the amount of pets we had from beginning to now..
We've had 21 dogs
15+ fishes I think (koi fishes, janitor fishes and gold fishes)
2 birds
We were going to have a snake but it died.
Our house looked like a zoo honestly..
What do you identify as your sexuality? Or do you not know yet?
I think i’m straight
but milfs
they tempt me
I am fucking confused
Hardcore lesbian, women are goddesses
I'm a lesbian
Im not sure but maybe im aromatic ?
I think I am bi but I am not sure (〜￣△￣)〜
*aromantic
I think I'm omnisexual, but im not sure
Pan :)
Im biexual tho I find boys more attractive than girls, I found out cause some girl kissed me and it wasnt bad soooo heh
Bisexual*
I don't use labels but I'm sexually attracted to cheese
i love cheese, but fella, when u see a melting cheese do you melt as well (●￣(ｴ)￣●)
Hell yeah
Not really sure but I've been attracted to men for as long as I live.
So I guess I am heterosexual tho I still don't get why there were girls confessing to me lmao
Ever just wanna take a giant bar of cheese and make a hole in it? Me too.
Ah.. cheese
Damn. The emojis didn't work
PANSEXUAL AND PART OF THE MOMMYMIKERS SUPPREMACY
I think I’m asexual/aromantic or gay lol
How?!
questioning but labeling myself as lesbian rn
my toungue is prolly sexually attracted to cheese but ight u need som therapist comrad
Pole dancing cheese.
Does therapy have cheese?
It's about two chefs and they live in a world where the initials of their fated person is imprinted on their body and the use had his fated person's initials like on his penis or somethin. Please help
sounds like pian pian ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
p!an p!an, but it's not here because the author asked to take it down on illegal sites :) you can read it on l3zhin
The series is called "pian pian" But you can't read it here cuz they removed it here for reasons but you can read it on the proper website called "Lezhins"sorry if I'm not of much help(￣∇￣")
yeah it's pian pian, try downloading the lezhin app and complete some "actions" to get some coins, cuz thats what I did lol ╥﹏╥
plus i think the first season just finished so its on pause for now
What do you guys prefer to read? A webtoon or Manga format?
Definitely manga
Webtoon. It's just easier to read on phone for me.
Depends on my mood
Manga..
Manga!!!
I'm looking for an omegaverse yaoi. It starts out with the dads explaing their daughter how they first met when they were thugs in high school. Pretty sure one had orange hair and the other had purple hair. It was a very cute story
Probably this one?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shima_chanchi_no_tsugaijijou/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shima_chanchi_no_tsugaijijou/
I'm not sure but Is it Shima-chan Chi no Tsugai Jijou?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shima_chanchi_no_tsugaijijou/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shima_chanchi_no_tsugaijijou/