Ppl may think she's still an ass- but dearly note. Someone like that deserves a second chance. If a person knows their faults and admits it, then they're someone who is strong, you could always believe them and stick with them rather than a person who doesn't know how to admit what they've done wrong, now these people are the ones to be cautious about.
That one troupe in the yaoi genre makes me a bit salty. The uke is usually the one to have the most love rivals because the seme is loved by all. It's not a problem it just happens so often