boobluver

that’s how some people cope with devastating news/events. no need to judge so harshly. besides, he just learned that his mom never intended to come back. is it a wonder he’s so depressed? for someone so young (he’s in his early 20s) dude has really been through it.

So he copes with shutting his family out even his own kid ? That's not right he is just doing what he did again he is just running from everything and everyone you know it's not right to leave your own kid hanging

Bruh imagine that you’re in his situation, it’s not like he’s hurting anyone with the way he cope, he just need some time to think

exactly

Bruh you clearly don’t know how depressive episodes work and it shows. Hye literally just went through a traumatic experience with his asshole father plus had the memories of his abusive past came back. it’s completely understandable for him to not be in the right mental state to be 100% attentive to his child. Plus it’s not like byul is being neglected.

So say if you and your partner have a child if they have something they are going through would you let them abandon all of their duties as an adult and a parent

He wants some time alone to think and process everything and we should accept that. Hye is a human being. And sometimes other people can make things worse and be overwhelming to hye despite their intentions

if my partner just found out that he was abandoned by both of his parents, I’d act exactly like Dojin is. I’d support my partner in any way I can and given them space if that’s what they need. It’s not like huesung neglects byul every day. I don’t get your lack of compassion, it’s like you don’t know how crippling depression can be.

this 100%

Bruh it's not like hes abandoinging byul. He just needs some time to recollect yourself. Youd rather if the person recovers and is well enough to take care of the child than if they are depressed and clearly not thinking straight. If hye went to take care of byul in that mental state, he could possible injure the child by accident

Abandoning** recollect himself**( damn I cant spell )

Fathers can take care of children too, you know. Byul also has a father who clearly adores him. Hye-sung doesn't throw Byul out of the window, he leaves him with his father till he himself gets better. Do you think mothers are superheroes or something?

Bro it’s notlike he left Byul and Dojin and ran away again, you don’t know what it’s like to have a trauma and it shows. He ps clearly going through something and found out something that pretty much shocked him of course he’s gonna feel that way. He ain’t abusing anyone just because he’s devastated, he just need some time to think tf

I think you don’t know what trauma is and what it does to people. You also don’t know how depression works. If you’ve never experience either or both of this and you’re not an expert or learning to be an expert that knows how to deal with both trauma and depression I don’t really think your opinion is valid and needed. If you say shit like that to a person who’s actually depressed and have trauma I guarantee you’d just make the matter worse. Drive them deep to depression and add to their trauma. Educate yourself first and then talk.