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HI, I wanna ask for your advice regarding my sweet adorable niece whom I love sooo much.(≧∀≦) *AhemAhem, so the thing is- my niece is ten years old and I last met her a few weeks ago at a marriage ceremony and we talked a lot and she showed me a gacha video that she made herself...
I was watching it attentively And I saw two guy talks and the guy said, “I gotta go, have a date to catch” I was like ok. (●'◡'●)ﾉ Then, the date he meant has a boyish name so I just shrugged it off but then both of them started flirting with each other by calling themselves each other's man and boyfriend [the cringe cringy thing ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ ]. And I froze-I mean I am a multishipper and have an open minded and even watch/read a variety of genres [including shounen ai] but-bUt I’m scared my niece is going to be like me. I ask her calmly [while my brain is having a rollercoaster ride], “Are both of them a guy?” and she nodded and said, “Yes, i’m bored with girlxboy '' while she looked at me with a chuckle.
I told her to not tell anyone else about that other than me as my whole bloodline is too insanely religious [both my dad and mom’s side] and I just don’t want her to end like the fucked-up me!! I’m not ashamed of myself, I just don’t want her to be like me. (￣ε(#￣)Σ Once she discovers a various thing in “that” genre at that “age” there’s no possible way out of it. [If you understand what I meant] Please, please advise me on how to help her take it easy and how to help me expose the genre one at the time from phase-to-phase at her age.┗( T﹏T )┛
Btw, It’s not like I strictly don’t want her to hate that genre [I’m quite happy actually; I know I shouldn't feel like this], but I just want her to take it slow and learn it step-by-step. I don’t want her to go through shitty and fucked-up things like mine [you probably wouldn’t want to know it as I know a lot of fucked-up things much much more younger due to an accident]. So pretty please help me. ╥﹏╥
I mean... while I get not to tell anyone else cuz they're religious but was this made out of her interest in BL? Or cuz of her support for LGBT? I mean it could be both sure, but it doesn't necessarily mean she's into BL? Just she thinks same-sex couples are a-okay. Idk if that makes sense. Probably should first suss out what kind of stuff she watches. Like ask her about the cartoons she watches, anime, etc. If she's really a shipper or BL fan, you'll find out pretty easily based on how she talks about it. Otherwise not sure how you can control it if she doesn't live with you and has access to the internet lol good luck
omll i have this same worry about one of my younger cousins i would say u should lightly warn them but that could also lead to them getting curious and wanting to see themselves whats so bad so its a bit of a sticky situation
Honestly, just be cautious and aware of what they are dling and discovering. My life took a downhill not because of BL but because of some crazy perverted adults on the internet preying on children and spreading porn. Have them avoid anything over their age limit and also let them know that there shouldn’t be a bored feeling too it. Avoid letting her fetishize anything as well as keep her in the mindset all relationships can be interesting with the right people and stories. I used to think that straight was boring too, but now I know it’s just the things I was exposing myself too. Try ans let her know that she should agoid telling adults, but not in an aggressive secretive way, this way she won’t keep secrets regularly. Encourage her to consider what others believe and understand not everyone feels the same way as her. Idk what else to say haha
Maybe you should recommend family friendly BLs to them first. And make an effort to talk to them about the stuff that they read or want to read and explain to them that some contents on this genre aren’t really for her age things like that. This is to protect her as well and avoid getting traumatized.
I would teach a younger cousin just the basic rules about internet safety and the dangers. As for the BL teach a bit of lgbt history or the basics of one at a older age should know. A lot of BLs show the only good parts and not the reality. It is better for your religious relatives don’t know about this and I like that she’s open minded at such age. I like the recommendation comment but you can’t be able to monitor someone 24/7. As long as they’re self aware of what their doing and talk to her since you’re the only one that knows if she ever comes across something to ask you. I’m assuming anything sex/sexuality is barely brought up in a religious household.
So, this is a manga that i read back when mangarock still exist...
The Plot: The female Lead's in love with her male best friend but he's actually in love with the female lead's big sister and the male best friend's in love with the female lead. Yeah, a love rectangle.
But in the present the female lead decided to confess to her crush after their school festival finish but later on, she find out at the same day that her crush and her sister just started to couple. So the fl walk to her home alone but her crush best friend [who love her] accompany her with his bicycle [he's a tsudere and short with black hair and big round eyes ^^]
I forgot what happen but the fl and the tsudere [let me just call him that] has keys to the rooftop that will magically let the owner's travel to their past, for them, their first day in high school/middle school [i forgot]. Then a lot happen, the tsudere and the fl fall in love and decided to be with each other.. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
But then they find out that the fl's ex-crush also has the key and he was furious [i think it's because the fl's sister commit suicide or the fl's sister decided to broke of her their relationship] and use the key to rewind their time AGAIN! The fl and the tsudere tried their best to avoid it but failed, so they kissed each other while holding hands. （/TДT)/
If i'm not mistaken, one of the twist in the story is that, the person who actually give fl the keys are her OWN sister. Because her sister love her soo muchhh! Omgosh, I still remember how badly i cried that time.. ╥﹏╥
Anyway, I really really appreciate it if you tell me the title and perhaps give me the link also? I really search for it but it's all meaningless.. (￣ε(#￣)Σ
I dkgadsajdhsajds loveeee the plot, art and everything about the manga~! So pretty please help meee┗( T﹏T )┛
Sounds like Henyoku no labyrinth
OMGosh, thank you thank you so so much~! I checked it and you're 1OO% right!! (≧∀≦)(≧∀≦)