Hi, you know my mom used to say that no matter how many people comes in your life you can only have one family. She also came in somehow toxic kind of upbringing too, but she often says that you can only give the love you know, of course this will never ever be a valid reason to justify a person's wrongdoings, even if they're our parents and by all......
I don't have much advice here except : what's the use of giving up your dream for something that doesn't interest you ? As a teacher, you'll be able to leave the house and live a decent life. You can change city and go far from your mother too. You could also go abroad to teach, but then again, you decide if moving country is necessary when you c......
wow, i read all the story of yours and thats fucked up. alright, im try my best to give u an advice. - i think you should talk to your mom and your dad and tell them that they are so wrong and let you die bc of them. be brave. dont let them get u. tell them how fucked up u are, shout at them so they know THEY. ARE. WRONG. - or go talk to therap......
Dude prove her that she's wrong, don't let get go of your dreams just for some hypocrite mother like her, seriously words aren't enough to gain her trust you need some work, well even after all some work you've done and she's still doesn't trust you just cut ties with her you don't deserve that. You're already old enough to decide on your own, don'......
You know, you are quite strong to endure it to this point. You still have a vision of a better future and it keeps you crawling forward. I myself had it much less severe than you and still completely broke. I don't know much about your happiness or resentment, but you should definitely be proud of yourself
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I dont think im qualified to give you advices. But again, thank you so much for sharing. I wish for your happiness. I admire you for being able to go through this very difficult times.
cut her the fuck off. you didn't deserve all that toxic shit. move out as soon as you can and cut off anyone that threatens well-being. just a reminder that you can cut off anyone in your life and family members are no exception. toxic is toxic.
Leave her Sis there is nothing better than leaving a toxic relationship It will do nothing but benefit you
It may be hard but you should probably try to leave and live away from her and your father as soon as you can. The abuse they're putting you through may affect you your whole life and if they're acting like that then you don't need to treat them like they're important. Considering how controlling she sounds I would advise you to cut her out of your......
You're turning 18 so you can be independent and live alone. And also you need to make sure you're financially secure after all because you know there's taxes and all. Suppose you live alone and have a job with less pay, maybe you can find a roommate and share rent. Maybe asking your friend about being a roommate. Also, you be what you want to be. D......
Hi! I sincerely apologize if i'm wrong, but are you, perhaps, a Filipino? It's okay if you aren't; it's just that this sounds like a problematic setting in most Filipino households. I can't say that I completely understand how you feel for I haven't really experienced it firsthand but I know that I sympathize with your struggles. You don't deserve ......
I understand that you still respect your mum and i think you are incredibly strong for that . But my dear its okay if you resent her , cut it all off , make some new friends with healthy happy relationships. Everyone deserves happiness in their lives . Make friends that you can depend on. I hope you will continue to be strong , and find the ha......
There is nothing wrong with you. You are not the crazy one. Your parents are. Your mother is a classic abuser and it sounds like your father isn't far behind her. Your mother can't help you with your problems because she is the cause of your problems. She tears you down in order to control you. She ridicules your friends and boyfriend because......
As i read your story it reminds me of my asian mother because everything is so similar but my advice to you child is that Ignore it if you cannot handle the stress and your parents ,seek help or open up to your friends . Keep on thriving . Having the same experience with parents and in your case ..especially your mother , I have similar thoughts ......
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