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does anyone else have an itchy/uncomfortable/confused feeling omegaverse? more so on the omega side of things, the entire genre seems like an excuse for rape/sexual coercion. like oh, yeah the alpha raped the omega and its totally okay since he was an heat, he was asking for it or the alpha just couldnt resist. and how theres also the very very common trope of i took suppressants but they didn't work(they never work).

however what also irritates me alot are the yaois that try so hard to negate these tropes with the alpha thats not like the others, being the knight in shining armor for the omega. however their kindness feels so shallow and uncomfortable. it feels like theyre just conveniently put in to make the other party look bad. specifically, (for me) in ousama to puppy love, the alpha just goes into the omega zone but its totally overlooked since hes a good alpha and blahblahblah. in addition, when the omega went to the alpha's palace hes seen a """woman""" they give him female clothes and spruce him up for a quote on quote sexy night?? im all for guys wearing female clothing however the way they portrayed it was an omega blushing princess looking pretty and perfumed and in heat for her wonderful prince. i hate how in omegaverse and also yaoi in general they use female as a derogatory term. like "oh you're all wet and taking my cock and moaning like a woman, or i've turned you into a woman"

adding on the "knight in shining armor" does anyone feel frustrated when there's a love rival whose a perfectly decent person who is as good as the lead but BAM now theyre a rapist, or they are a psychopath and the lead will save the mc because all along everyone knows the second lead is always bad and evil and shitty, and make the lead look like god.

I also get the itchy feeling when its like the omega stays at home and looks pretty and is in heat waiting for the majestic important alpha, however its """"romantic"""" since the alpha cares for the omega or whatever. although I don't deny that a person who would care for you and love you and work so that you don't have to seems nice, I love stories where the two characters seem mutual and equal and both help each other up.

so in conclusion, does anyone have manga where the two characters are equal to each other instead of one dominating the relationship? sorry, this was a rant I had to get out ;_;