
When you're angrier about a little kitten being abandoned then a guy being kidnapped and chained.
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If you're talking about Kazuya, I think that was him using the "carrot and stick" technique.

Oops! Sorry, I misread. I thought it said "when you're more worried about a little kitten being abandoned then a guy being kidnapped and chained."
I guess this is what happens when you have too many browser windows opened at the same time... *embarrassed* >_<

I mean... we could sit down, cry and discuss our life's troubles over a hot cup of tea, hugs all around... but this is so much more entertaining. ^^

XD I do feel your frustration, I really do but...
Well, I think this doesn't really just apply to yaoi but to most genres and life itself. We tend to play our problems up bigger than they actually are, we're usually to bitter to drink tea, talk and actually make the effort to see the situation from the other side's perspective. Sometimes it's easier to avoid our problems then face them head on. I know I can be guilty of that! Not that I tend to rape people when I get annoyed at them ...or do I? ;)
No... No I don't...
Back to the subject at hand, I think it's important to consider that if all characters did the right thing and talked to each other about how they felt, what they thought and overall came to a peaceful agreement then there'd be no story. No antagonist, no climax, no tension. Nothing.
And as stupid and forced as some of these disagreements might be... yeah no I got nothing, some just feel unnatural and trope-y. So rejoice the ones that have actual thought put into them!
Like I GET why these characters are so upset! THANK GOD!
What I'm trying to say is, you can consider it to be kind of realistic in the sense that most people hurt and in the heat of the moment don't want to try and understand the other person. Or look at it from a story point of view and say 'hey at least I'm getting a story. It could just be two folks sipping tea'.
Also... I might secretly enjoy the rape trope ^^

*Hands him drink*
Me- Bitch that's totally drugged.
I feel like drugging people through drinks etc happens a lot in the yaoi (and most other things) I read.
I mean a LOT. I made a list there was so many. Not that I'm complaining.
So I'm just super paranoid every single time someone gives someone else a drink.
I don't know what you did to that! I don't know where it came from! Why are you showing me kindness? Who even are you again?!
I feel like we should take a leaf out of Mad-Eye Moody's book and just drink from a hipflask.
(...But not end up trapped in a magic trunk like Moody...)
Pffffttt trust, who needs that am I right?
Paranoid hermit for life!
Hahahaha I need to sleep...

Well then please inform me, how do I take it? Though it was a slightly strange comment (says me XD) I do believe I interpreted the right way.
If you don't mind me saying, are you sure it's not you who misinterpreted my second comment?
I like to play around with words and just speak as oddly as possible, my humour is such that I'm told a lot of people think I'm being sassy or defensive when I'm usually just joking. I probably should change but.... it's just so satisfying to see people's looks of confusion!

Ah! I'm sorry! It was on an old social media account so I can't access it anymore.
However when I have some more free time (I have too many deadlines right now -_- ) I promise I'll try to remember and find as many as I can and link them to you in a comment ^^
For now, why don't you try clicking the 'drugs' tag and see what manga come up under it?
Oh how they've grown.
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Makes me all warm and fuzzy inside.