
I don’t enjoy how people are not giving grace. I think we’re starting to see in black and white. Like two things can be true at once. Are Ido and Jin fucked all to hell? Kinda yeah. But that doesn’t erase that it’s a human experience and we are complex. Like they don’t need to die they just need help. Like I know y’all don’t think so but Ido plight is more common than you think. He’s so insecure in the love of others and himself that he constantly pushes to prove their love and when they leave he thinks it’s cause they didn’t love him enough. He just fulfills his own prophecy that everyone will leave him. You know what? I just love how this tackles complex dynamics and emotions but imma shut up

I agree with you that people wanting Ido and Jin to die is are stretching a bit too much and that both ml’s definitely need some sort of help. But I believe we should be normalising their actions. I think it’s definitely human or normal to feel insecure in relationships but not to the levels Ido is. I believe that both Ido and Jin have either treated or did something pretty terrible to our mc, which they definitely need help for. I don’t believe us humans our that complex, if so then we all probably need help.

See thats the problem, no one said anything about normalizing it. I’m saying the complexity isn’t how Ido and Jin are responding physically but in the way they think emotionally although it does play a role. Just because I’m saying I get it and I understand doesn’t mean I condone. Devils advocate if you will. I swear this morality and purity thing going on is enabling us to create and think profoundly

I don’t know if it cause I’m ovulating but this shit is so deep yo. From the cover art of each chapter to the title of the chapters. Like yall are focusing on the polyamory but I don’t really think that’s the point forreal. This isn’t supposed to be a healthy portrayal of polyamory because the end goal for any of them wasn’t polyamory. If Jin didn’t get caught, he probably wouldn’t have interfered, Ido is only polyamorous becomes he’s someone that needs love coming at him from all sides ( and he’s childish so he probably thought since I can’t have the one I love let me surround myself with love) and Gyeonwoo only liked Ido (but there is some underlying problem with him and love/affection, I just know it). This story has a lot to do with complex feelings and so far on Ido’s part some trauma. I neeeed yall to lock in, forreal twin. So far I’m personally thinking it’s testing the line of love, admiration and obsession and how that line is thin, but that’s just me. (Before anyone attacks me cause yall girls like to jump, this is my personal opinion)

Nah I see what you mean, from the beginning this shit wasn't normal "romance" this is more about the psychological aspects of trauma bonding, obsession and borderline possession. All three have their own trouble that is so deep that they themselves don't even understand why and how to deal with their feelings

Before reading the part 5 years before I’m like okay the uke is doing too much, he just did that shit to help you and to say he put his hands on him like it wasn’t something they both did. Now no sympathy for the manager cause the uke was like I hate being a portrayed sadist but I guess I’ll live with it but nooooooo the manager goes I’ll help you. But he really gets into it like he is a forreal sadist, even makes the uke piss on himself while on his lap. Like dude literally set boundaries and was constantly crossing them. He was being possessive and jealous and was doing the play whenever he felt like it. I know someone gonna say but that doesn’t mean he was in love with the uke but think about it like this, they are engaging in very vulnerable play. Of course if the manager is acting like that the uke is gonna have some kind of attachment. Bruh I’m so mad, even the uke knew where their line was but because the manager kept crossing it, it got blurred and when it got blurred, THEN AND ONLY THEN DID THAT MOTHERFUCKER START TO PULL BACK AND MAKE THE LINE CLEAR. Ughhhhhhhhhhhh niggas make me mad. Anyways hope his update

Forreal, what is going on? Like what is with these in flux of comments about prep and toxic seme/uke. Mangas have been this way forever especially BL. Is it fucked up, yeah but we are not the demographic to change that because 1 we are pirating and 2 I’m pretty this is not apart of most of our culture (meaning you’re not Asian).None of this is new because none of it is real??? This does not exist to teach sex ed. Like these talking points based around realism OF A MANGA are kinda ridiculous. These comments about people dropping because of how toxic it is. OKAY? An announcement of your departure is not needed
“We chose to call this seemingly endless moment love”
THIS NIGGA IS SPITTIN’