Not that it excuses her actions, but I have close family that was born and raised in very rural parts of asia, and there's a certain mentality that's not really captured elsewhere. Roughly that 1) life's goal should be to settle down with a family, *in particular* to have children and 2) that everyone in the village knows everyone else's details and will actively try to match single folks up.
So while it's not right at all (dangerous too), I think there's room for growth.
The typical demographic of people that feel this way is a little older than her though...
Can't say anything about her treatment of er grandmother though. That was pretty irresponsible of her.
the silhouette of the baby with her funny little hat looked like a baby seal...