Idk I don't believe it's dudes fault for being the way he was I blame the mom for forcing the homophobic shit onto him and I've never really liked the uke like that so ye
There is literally no excuse to what he did. It's not the mom's fault what he did. The mom might have been homophobic but she didn't rape and abuse anyone, that was all him. It's not even about liking the uke, no one deserves to go through what he did. Mom did have an influence but everyone is their own person, he was old enough to think for himself he's not a fucking sheep or robot
Y'all hoes suck