...reminded me off when I Was like 8yrs old & climbed onto a bed frame with these balls withflat spikey thinks on the ends. They were the parts that fit into a top bunk, but we were poor so it was split up into two beds. I was trying to put a sticker on a lightbulb and fell. It literally busted my punani. Like smashed my labia & Vulva into My pubic bone. Split open the skin on the inside of my very inner vagina and bruised almost my entire vulva. My big sister was the only one home and I crawled to her bc I literally couldnt speak. Spent some days with ice on it. I wonder if I have a scar? Considering I once got drunk and sewed my twat shut to spite my bf, I don’t know if it would be visible.
...the dude fcking me while I was passed out drunk didn’t make me cum. I once had a guy fck my while I was passed out and on my period and his stupid dick shoved my tampon in so far I thought I’d have to go to the ER; which I would have rather died then do. It was pretty horrific getting that shit out. This happened to me so much I even came up with a test to figure out if a guy was safe. I’d pretend to pass out alone and see what happened. At least half the guys failed. Really just ruined what little trust I still had in straight, cis dudes. Just a word of warning; if you’re female and want to drink, have a posse of good friends to have your back. Way to many guys see a drunk chick the way a lion sees a wounded antelope. Prey.
I hate to say this but I think you should be afraid. We don’t teach boys (at least not enough of us do) to not rape. We teach girls how not to get raped. Sometimes online you think ppl are really woken up to why fcking an unconscious person is wrong, but it doesn’t really translate to irl. It’s sucks but if you want to party you have to take precautions. Don’t stray from your friend, have at least own friend who stays sober and keeps and eye on you. It’s stupid. Girls should be allowed to be just as messy as dudes, but so many guys think it’s open season. I’ve also had some gay friends who have had the same issue. But most of the ppl I hung with were hardcore. Maybe the worst of the worst are drawn to us fck ups bc they known damaged ppl will use more and harder and therefore be more vulnerable. Maybe there aren’t as many rapists in circles that are made of of ppl who don’t get wasted like that, I’ve read that it’s not that there are a ton of rapists but that rapists are prolific. I just don’t know. I do know that when I left that lifestyle behind and interacted with women who didn’t have the background I did, that they didn’t have the same kind of stories. They’d have some sexual harassment here and there, a guy getting to handsy, but few of them have told me they’ve actually been raped. I know it happens, but maybe is less common. Its speculation but I think predators are drawn to ppl like me. The clearly damaged, the one who will drink alone if they have to. It’s a frustrating phenomenon. I don’t have enough information though to confirm my speculations completely, but I think if I researched it I’d find statistical correlation. But to be on the safe side just be careful if you’re going to be incapacitated.
From this bullshit you'd think all men were rapists and all women were their innocent victims who are always at their mercy. Men know not to rape, they know what's rape and what isn't, and they ARE taught how not to rape women. This whole stupid spiel sounds to me exactly like man-hate.
Women are not the innocent victims at all times in every situation, so don't make it out like they are. Women are just as strong psychologically as men, and they know very well how not to get raped. Men certainly don't think of women like wounded antelopes. that's ridiculous, and what's more, I don't believe half of your men failed your little test. no way in hell.
Men are people just like women are. Most don't want trouble, don't want to hurt women, and would love to have a woman to love.
Take a deep breath because you're being an idiot for no reason, the least of women's worries right now is to try to show that not all men are trash, the men you're talking about does exist but not more than men who abuses and rapes as soon as they get a chance, we do not need your comment to know not all men are like that but most of them are, at least from my experience and many other woman's experience as well. getting groomed by men already at a young age, etc. Knowing what we women deserve and calling out men for it isn't called man-hate, stop your bullshit asap, you men are so selfish. scientifically, men are just built to act like an animals towards a woman and go by their instincts, unlike women who can control themselves more and they are already taught at a very young age already to fix how the way they dress, speak and their behaviour towards men in order to not trigger men, if we don't want get looked at sexually by the men in our family. Men are much more smarter than they looks and throughout history has already managed to rape women with different ways despite women "being as strong psychologically as men" you're full of shit
Yeah, I can believe that more men are bad than good - IN PRISON!! If you actually believe everything you're saying, then most of all the men you will ever meet will be opportunistic rapists and bad people. You will never find a mate, get married to a good person, or have a family. Your chances of doing so are near zero. What you're saying isn't true until you put your wholehearted belief in it. It's the reality you're creating for yourself alone. It's not true for everyone else. You've even plundered the goodness of. your own family, which is really rather shocking. Are you sure it isn't you who are the bad person?
Don't start off by making insulting remarks, and don't assume that I need to take any deep breaths. That's not well-intended, sincere advice. It's just you being hateful.
How are you gonna call me a bad person despite the men in my family already sexualising me at the age of 8? The truth is all this time you've been victim shaming, you're doubting my innocence and you aren't ready to accept that all this time I've been speaking from my experience, also hearing and talking about other woman's experience about the harassment from many other men too. Once again, you're full of shit, you're talking about sincere advice and respectful words but you're just being hateful with big words, you never thought to yourself that maybe what I'm saying is true because I'm a female and I know what I'm saying and what I've been experiencing. Maybe you're right about never getting married because you know what? Men traumatized me and if I marry one I'll be miserable all my life, I'll always doubt their loyalty and sanity. It's not my fault that your definition of loyalty is fucking a dude, getting married and taking care of his children until it less to divorce. You're a clown for ignoring the percentage of women who had gotten raped and abused by men, you should be ashamed, talking about not true for everyone else when I met a bunch of women who would tell you otherwise. Don't expect me to take you seriously just because your approach to me is respectful when your intention isn't. You're victim shaming and that's all you'll be
Assuming you're a dude, you guys never want to hear any rape stories or any other stories in that kind from women because they make your gender look bad. Fucking clowns, if you're the one getting triggered by it and you're the part of the men we are talking about, like I said , the least of our worries right now is to prove all men are innocent little babies when people with basic knowledge know that not all men are bad, you don't have to get mad and comment about it. You're guilty
You can't talk about percentages unless you can give me the percentage you're referring to. What percent of women have gotten raped and abused by men? Be accurate if you're going to use math. Also, You can't represent yourself as a heterosexual then deny that you're a heterosexual. Surely you must see that.
Here. I'll quote you as representing yourself as a heterosexual. You said, "the men you're talking about does exist but not more than men who abuses and rapes as soon as they get a chance, we do not need your comment to know not all men are like that but most of them are, at least from my experience and many other woman's experience as well."
That's you, a heterosexual, speaking from your experience in your own words.
Last, some women are victims, but you're wildly exaggerating how many, and I'm taking exception to it. I can as easily accuse you of "man-shaming," which sounds just as ridiculous as "victim-shaming."
Did you every thought that perhaps I'm bi and I can still get a partner? Why are you worrying so much that I don't like men and I probably won't get a male partner someday. You signaling that no male partner = unhappiness and shit in life. gtfo. And even if I do want to get one I'll have to go to therapy first from all the trauma that only men gave me in my life, mind you, I don't remember any women touching me when I was a kid until in my adulthood. so blame them and not me, lastly, I want this to be my last reply to you since the only thing I can understand from your point of view is that you're scared people will think all men are trash by a woman exposing her trauma that was caused by a man. like I said, victim shaminh
It’s funny you heard all men are rapists. Ima guess you’re one of those dumb cunts who read a few lines, get triggered and then start ranting like a dumbass. In my post I clearly said “not all men are rapists, it’s just rapists are prolific.” I’m thinking you’ve infected by MRA, red pill types which are about as deluded as Q ppl and Trump supporters. But go off btch cause you sound like an actual sociopath. Also really appreciate how you completely devalue my real experiences. Maybe one day you too can experience being ass raped in the back of a van by a group of guys and you can tell them how it’s not actually their fault.
Okay whore go off, How do you have this severe of a victim complex, why do men feel the need to talk about themselves when women talk about their experiences and traumas. Always goin about 'BUT NOT ALL MEN-" "WOMEN RAPE TOO-" Okay whore, and? Go do your own post talk about your shit. You're fucking stupid for talking about shit like this when you're the one who got gang raped by a bunch of guys and talk as if women did it. I do not care that you got your ass gang raped just like you're ignoring the fact that the men in my family assaulted me, obviously I'll be traumatized because of it , while you're the who's totally unfazed by your trauma. So who's the one looking like a sociopath? You're so mad at women that you felt the need to specify In a post that not women are all innocent the of post didn't even said the opposite. You sound MAD ASF
Why are you responding to such an old post? I was trying to say, perhaps not as diplomatically as I should have, that not all men are rapists, that there's plenty of good men who want to form loving healthy relationships with women. I offended this woman by not believing all of her words. I believed most of it, and by the end I was convinced of her sincerity. If I didn't say it, I apologize. My defenses go up, maybe too high, because I've heard so much talk of how bad men are. We aren't all bad. I don't think most of us are. Look, I didn't read back over everything here. I remember this talk, but I don't remember everything that was said. I don't want to see everything and maybe react by saying the wrong thing again. I know that I partly reacted to being called an idiot. I do think about these issues, and sometimes I'm in the middle of processing things when my feelings get hurt, and sometimes I react. I do have feelings. I wanted to say that men have feelings. It's not all cold blooded cave men running around. I am just as much of a jerk as any of the rest, though. lol Sometimes I say the wrong things and regret it later, so please pardon me if you can find it in your heart.
I do like women, and I do have a lot of sisters who I worry about way too much that they might be assaulted. That brings up some hostile, maybe irrational, feelings of protection in me. It is a bit scary to think what I might want to do to any guy who would hurt them. Hopefully my reactions would be wanting to help my family instead of beating the shit out of some bastard. I'm talking too much here, and you might just come back at me still mad at me still. I hope not.
If this lady, Dissidia, sees this in her notifications, I hope you're doing well and I ask that you forgive my words if they offended you.
On my way home from work at a sex chat co in a beach resort. It was a weird setup. Also the guy wasn’t young and firt like this dude. But I’m tired and cranky on my way home at 2am walking down the boardwalk and a fcking flasher is butt ass naked wanking his tiny gross dck under a street light. Dude had a beer belly and a mustache and my reaction was the desire to tell him to put that little dck away and go home. A momentary flash of common sense kept me quiet and I hurried home. It was srsly nasty though. I once had a young, hot fit guy do something similar but he was super disturbed. He followed me into a house party and corned me in a bathroom and rubbed his dck on me desperately. I couldn’t understand why this hot dude, built like an athlete was being so weird, then I realized he was super sick in the head. I heard later he walked into another house and tried to rape an old woman.
....to unironically tell him “I love your big daddy dck”. What was hilarious is dude looked like he was 12 and I’d seen his dick up close. It was no daddy dck. I did it for the $20 but also out of pity.
No. 19 or 20, maybe a little older. He just looked super young. He was small and had a baby face. He was super cute in a boyish way. Total pervert though. A legit train wreck of a person too. A perfect example of someone who was brilliant and could have been an extremely successful person with amazing interpersonal skills but who was ruined by sht parents and a traumatic childhood. Like he had all the ingredients to grow into an amazing human, but was so deeply damaged that he was just unsalvageable.
That makes a huge difference in a dudes ability to get an erection or even feel horny since the testicles produce most male sex hormones. But it’s fiction so I guess I can suspend my disbelief. Just think of it like it’s sci fi or something.