Ash

Sadly the ex didnt know that much. But hes an asshole still. Too selfish and somewhat manipulative

fr he was too harsh like??? this man had 5 years of his life taken away from him its not as if he did it on purpose ??? explain to him properly and shit man be nice he is clearly sensitive and if you dated him for that long you'd know that

But the thing is, the Ex nor his family knew that he was in a coma, they thought he was missing and most likely dead.
Imagine you don't know whether the person you love was dead or alive, you have no news at all, the only thing you know was that the last location he was in had a high death toll. You then waited and grieved for your lover for 5 whole years before finally falling in love with someone new. He's not at fault at all for loving someone when he thought that MC was dead.
You can't exactly call a widow a cheater if she finds a new husband after her ex-husband died/ gone missing.
The only issue I have for the ex is his complete lack of sympathy for the MC. Like if you know your ex just woke up from a coma, it's okay to stay with your new lover, but at least have the decency to cut everything off at the start and still support him as a friend at least.

no? he didnt even know if yoon was alive, or just what happened to him in general. nobody knew that. what if he was dead? are you saying its fine to waste his whole life and mourn about his old lover? and i dont even think he fell out of love, even if he had that should be fine. people should think about themselves first, mans was literally suffering for years and its bad that he has moved on now? yes, he did treat yoon badly when they met (which he seems to be regretting) but thats unrelated to this

idk if its just me but personally I would make sure my partner is atleast dead if I'm going to move on to ME it's unfair to the partner I fell out of love with. he also signed up to be in a relationship with who works frontline as a journalist??? he knew what that would entail he was also aware of his love and passion for his job so really atleast confirming he died should have been his first step to move on and idk of its just this story irl the companies know if their employees are alive or not if they send them in frontline either the creator wanted to omit that part out or the dude didn't try hard enough. acting like it was the dudes fault for almost dying? like he didn't sign up to date someone who could??? is WEIRD responsibility is a thing you're hurting? sure but acting like the way you did isn't an excuse ig that guy's time hasn't moved for 5 years he ended up having the more horrible end of the stick the least you could do is be considerate to your ex

Um. But the ex did try his hardest to find out whether the MC was alive or dead. If MC's family has zero news about him, what else can the Ex do? There was absolutely no news from the embassy, nor MC's company. He had already grieved for 5 years, if he continued grieving, how long is acceptable to you? Ten? twenty? What if MC was in a coma for 30 years?
I'm sure the first place anyone tried contacting is also MC's company, but from what's going on I doubt that the company knew much of what is happening too, if they never informed his next of kin/ inform relatives to identify survivors. (Which is weird)

that's what I literally said its not his fault but then again confirming things was kinda his responsibility?? the creator probs omitted the part that irl companies know who died and who didn't when they send in their workers but generally speaking you should be able to confirm it???

My only problem was his reaction to him when he came back. Like u knows he’s in a state of confusion and your treating him like shit like he meant for it to happen

i feel as if he was blinded by his sorrow. losing not only a lover but a friend of thirty years must have been beyond devastating. during times of intense emotion, it’s really hard for people to make rational decisions, since their judgement is usually clouded by their feelings. he was in a lot of pain for those five years, and someone was constantly by his side acting as a place of comfort. i don’t think it was right the way he acted after he realized yoon was still alive, although it could be argued he was in a state of shock/anger/etc, but i can’t blame him for moving on. even his parents said that he searched for years looking for yoon, it’s not like he gave up immediately, and i doubt he fell out of love either. it was just numbed until yoon came back

The MC coma for 5 years but the Ex move on after 4 years when he wake up with his new boyfriend their relationship becouse his guilty the new boyfriend said the Ex raped him but in reality the new boyfriend the one raped him and onemore the new boyfriend know that yoon still alive or coma.. sorry my grammer bad this is from novel someone spoiler like this.. But I don't how the Ex treated yoon when he just wake up from coma

Ong really?! The new boyfriend knew?! OH SHT I WANNA FVCKIG PUNCH HIM SO HARD. I'm still mad when he wished the MC dead