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I mean, it'd be a dealbreaker for me if somebody didn't want to marry me lol I do not want to be "partner" for 24 years. Either lock it down or find somebody else who wants to entertain that mess in their 40s.
In this case, it seems especially annoying, because doing everything but signing it in ink signals he's willing to do everything but actually commit, which idk. I'm sure there's going to be a traumatic backstory to it like there always is, but it's still very annoying.