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yeah basically and this is coming from someone who into bdsm, when your husband or wife dont stop despite being told to that is called marital rape ( or just rape for non married couple ) if there's kinky plays but no safe words that mean we are in "default settings" so a no is a no, its not a "maybe", its not a "please harder" its a no until both party agree on a safe word other than a vocal refusal. I know that romanticising rape culture is so rampant on every medium that yall want to normalize it but i promise yall can keep reading whatever adult shit yall want without gaslitghing yourselves and lowering your standards all the way down to hell