i had a dream tht my bf was cheating on me by messaging a girl behind my back. it was a repetitive dream and in my dream i saw tht her name started with a D, so i told him about my dream and he js brushed it off saying not to think tht. later on i went over to his house and something told me to check his phone. i asked to see it and as soon as i opened messages i saw a girls name tht i didn’t recognize and it started with a D. he then took the phone walked away acting like he was talking to his sister and came back after deleting it. ofc i noticed, and he again brushed it off saying it was a coworker and he deleted because he thought i would jump to conclusions. i told him tht it was stupid to delete it if he had nothing to hide and now i was even more suspicious. he didn’t know you can get deleted messages back so i recovered them and he quickly snatched the phone from my hands and wanted to defend himself. i told him to give me the phone and i saw his messages. calling her beautiful and everything. it had gone on for a few weeks. i broke down. i even called her and told her what he had done and she was on my side butttt i found out she was 21 while my bf was 16. btw i’m 17 turning 18 and he is 16 turning 17 anyways she had went up to him at the beach asking if he was single and ofc he said yes, then he told her his age and ig she didn’t care and got her number. i decided to forgive him. this story reminds me so much of what happened. idk if i should’ve forgiven him or not because now im always worried he might do it again or is doing it behind my back rn. ╥﹏╥