i had a dream tht my bf was cheating on me by messaging a girl behind my back. it was a repetitive dream and in my dream i saw tht her name started with a D, so i told him about my dream and he js brushed it off saying not to think tht. later on i went over to his house and something told me to check his phone. i asked to see it and as soon as i opened messages i saw a girls name tht i didn’t recognize and it started with a D. he then took the phone walked away acting like he was talking to his sister and came back after deleting it. ofc i noticed, and he again brushed it off saying it was a coworker and he deleted because he thought i would jump to conclusions. i told him tht it was stupid to delete it if he had nothing to hide and now i was even more suspicious. he didn’t know you can get deleted messages back so i recovered them and he quickly snatched the phone from my hands and wanted to defend himself. i told him to give me the phone and i saw his messages. calling her beautiful and everything. it had gone on for a few weeks. i broke down. i even called her and told her what he had done and she was on my side butttt i found out she was 21 while my bf was 16. btw i’m 17 turning 18 and he is 16 turning 17 anyways she had went up to him at the beach asking if he was single and ofc he said yes, then he told her his age and ig she didn’t care and got her number. i decided to forgive him. this story reminds me so much of what happened. idk if i should’ve forgiven him or not because now im always worried he might do it again or is doing it behind my back rn. ╥﹏╥
Oh girl…that’s not…be careful. He’s definitely unfaithful and will do it again. He doesn’t deserve your forgiveness. Like the way he was so nonchalant with lying to you is such a red flag
I know getting advice online from strangers can be subjective, but take this with a grain of salt. Y’all are young and boys will make mistakes, but putting yourself through a lot of stress being with a partner that you don’t trust will only break you down the longer. Y’all are together now I don’t know any anything or everything about your relationship so this might not apply, but I think some good advice is that a partner shouldn’t be someone that you don’t trust a partner should always be your rock and a solid force to you your most supportive and loyal. They should also be honest and I think being with someone that you can barely trust or gives you regrets is just torture and doesn’t keep for a solid relationship just food for thought
You don't want to be with a guy like that. Promise you. I was with a guy who did this for 4 years and he did it repeatedly. Probably why I like this story so much. Reminds me of myself. Now, I'm married to someone else with kids. He's faithful and loves me. You are young and probably think you'll never find anyone else. But thar isn't true. You deserve to be loved unconditionally and have a faithful partner. Your partner now is a liar and cheater, and has a very high chance of being a repeat offender. Also, that lady is super gross going after a minor.
the fact taht you had dreams of his unfaithfulness shows that you're still protected by God (or the universe, depending on your belief), maybe you have relatives or family who still pray for your well being. there are plenty of people who dont even have warning and just living painfully. so be grateful and take the premonition as a warning and cut ties with your bf, because cheating is self-indulgent and addiction.
i had a dream tht my bf was cheating on me by messaging a girl behind my back. it was a repetitive dream and in my dream i saw tht her name started with a D, so i told him about my dream and he js brushed it off saying not to think tht. later on i went over to his house and something told me to check his phone. i asked to see it and as soon as i opened messages i saw a girls name tht i didn’t recognize and it started with a D. he then took the phone walked away acting like he was talking to his sister and came back after deleting it. ofc i noticed, and he again brushed it off saying it was a coworker and he deleted because he thought i would jump to conclusions. i told him tht it was stupid to delete it if he had nothing to hide and now i was even more suspicious. he didn’t know you can get deleted messages back so i recovered them and he quickly snatched the phone from my hands and wanted to defend himself. i told him to give me the phone and i saw his messages. calling her beautiful and everything. it had gone on for a few weeks. i broke down. i even called her and told her what he had done and she was on my side butttt i found out she was 21 while my bf was 16. btw i’m 17 turning 18 and he is 16 turning 17 anyways she had went up to him at the beach asking if he was single and ofc he said yes, then he told her his age and ig she didn’t care and got her number. i decided to forgive him. this story reminds me so much of what happened. idk if i should’ve forgiven him or not because now im always worried he might do it again or is doing it behind my back rn. ╥﹏╥
Oh girl…that’s not…be careful. He’s definitely unfaithful and will do it again. He doesn’t deserve your forgiveness. Like the way he was so nonchalant with lying to you is such a red flag
I know getting advice online from strangers can be subjective, but take this with a grain of salt. Y’all are young and boys will make mistakes, but putting yourself through a lot of stress being with a partner that you don’t trust will only break you down the longer. Y’all are together now I don’t know any anything or everything about your relationship so this might not apply, but I think some good advice is that a partner shouldn’t be someone that you don’t trust a partner should always be your rock and a solid force to you your most supportive and loyal. They should also be honest and I think being with someone that you can barely trust or gives you regrets is just torture and doesn’t keep for a solid relationship just food for thought
You don't want to be with a guy like that. Promise you. I was with a guy who did this for 4 years and he did it repeatedly. Probably why I like this story so much. Reminds me of myself. Now, I'm married to someone else with kids. He's faithful and loves me. You are young and probably think you'll never find anyone else. But thar isn't true. You deserve to be loved unconditionally and have a faithful partner. Your partner now is a liar and cheater, and has a very high chance of being a repeat offender. Also, that lady is super gross going after a minor.
the fact taht you had dreams of his unfaithfulness shows that you're still protected by God (or the universe, depending on your belief), maybe you have relatives or family who still pray for your well being. there are plenty of people who dont even have warning and just living painfully. so be grateful and take the premonition as a warning and cut ties with your bf, because cheating is self-indulgent and addiction.