so the uke is not immature or whatever. i know the seme has a lot to worry about & all but look at it this way. the uke's first love was everything to him, you cant just want him to instantly forget about him. the uke liked him for a reason & when he found out his unrequired love wouldnt be returned, it hurt him. also the fact that the seme isnt helping him makes the uke feel like hes abandoning him. do you know how much courage the uke had to put up to tell someone about his past. yes, they are adults but they have feelings too. not all adults are mature, you cant just want the uke to accept this. his past has changed his way of thinking about love, he isnt very experianced with love either so he doent know what hes doing. to have a relationship, you have to put in work. you cant just half-ass it. that not how it works, so the seme needs to help him if he really cares about their relationship.
so the uke is not immature or whatever. i know the seme has a lot to worry about & all but look at it this way. the uke's first love was everything to him, you cant just want him to instantly forget about him. the uke liked him for a reason & when he found out his unrequired love wouldnt be returned, it hurt him. also the fact that the seme isnt helping him makes the uke feel like hes abandoning him. do you know how much courage the uke had to put up to tell someone about his past. yes, they are adults but they have feelings too. not all adults are mature, you cant just want the uke to accept this. his past has changed his way of thinking about love, he isnt very experianced with love either so he doent know what hes doing. to have a relationship, you have to put in work. you cant just half-ass it. that not how it works, so the seme needs to help him if he really cares about their relationship.