It’s a humorous read, so I’m going to stick with it and try not to think too seriously...

NeverlandIsCalling January 22, 2021 6:41 pm

It’s a humorous read, so I’m going to stick with it and try not to think too seriously about it but oh my gosh if this was a real relationship- I would be smacking that girl left and right to wake her up and let her see the red flags. It’s all toxic. I mean, becoming a maid??? There’s already a power imbalance with his family’s political power and money. He is also already having her follow his family’s rules and such. Now he’s making her a maid?! Does he not realize how foolish that is considering if she meets his family members? Are we going to ignore the fact that his little body guard was already calling her a low human being and it’s safe to assume his thoughts represents the likely thoughts of the main family??? He is not helping her out and he is putting her through so many issues. He should’ve just turned her down. If he loved her, he wouldn’t put her through all this and would wait until they could properly date. As for her- it genuinely disgusts me that she keeps expecting sex when he has said no and she’s continuing to try to seduce him. Just like when a girl says no, if a man says no- no means no. I get it- he actually wants to but there’s rules blah blah blah. I’m personally the type to wait till marriage. Not really for any specific rules, but to protect myself. I do have moments of temptation but guess what? I have explained to all my previous serious BFs my thoughts and they have each respected it and made sure not to cross those boundaries. Heck, I’ve been told that even if I suddenly asked for it, they would likely say no in the moment and wait a good period of time to make sure it was what I truly wanted- not a brief moment of temptation. I respect them a lot for this and still am good friends with my exes. Why can’t this chick respect that? I get wanting a kiss or cuddling but leave it at that. Don’t bring up sex yet. They’re both obviously very immature and shouldn’t rush into things all of sudden once a b day passes. You are the same person you were the day before your birthday and the day of your birthday.

Responses
    amjs January 22, 2021 6:59 pm

    I totally agree with u. If it’s in a manga it is really cute but in real life? No no. Like who the hell want their lover become a servant at their house. Don’t u feel sorry for them working, cleaning and serving their subordinates and family? Just because u r rich doesn’t mean that u r a superior in the relationship. And the girl was so fucking naive. U r being take advantage on in a disguise of ur love on.

    NeverlandIsCalling January 22, 2021 7:05 pm
    I totally agree with u. If it’s in a manga it is really cute but in real life? No no. Like who the hell want their lover become a servant at their house. Don’t u feel sorry for them working, cleaning and se... amjs

    Exactly! I hope any young girls reading this do not take it seriously or think this is healthy. Luckily I’m old enough and mature enough to just past it off as a story and not make it an image of “true love” or an actual healthy relationship dynamic. Unfortunately, I’ve already seen comments saying they want this sort of relation. Uh no. Also, let’s not forget that they are merely 16 years old. He won’t be actually turning 18 but rather 17. Maybe my views are skewed because I live in the US, but they are children. This may be a controversial opinion, but if you aren’t of age of consent to be having sex with an adult, you aren’t of age of consent to be having sex with other minors. I’m sorry, but you are so young and naive at 16. Your brain is not fully developed and you having truly experienced the real world. Protect yourself. Why put yourself in a position to be easily emotionally damaged?

    amjs January 22, 2021 8:35 pm
    Exactly! I hope any young girls reading this do not take it seriously or think this is healthy. Luckily I’m old enough and mature enough to just past it off as a story and not make it an image of “true love... NeverlandIsCalling

    Well im 17 going to be 18 this year. I don’t 100% agree with u that we shouldn’t have sex until we reach adulthood. I think if we both have consent with it then it is fine. But what i think is a no no is that this is a toxic relationship and she doesn’t realize that.

    NeverlandIsCalling January 22, 2021 9:46 pm
    Well im 17 going to be 18 this year. I don’t 100% agree with u that we shouldn’t have sex until we reach adulthood. I think if we both have consent with it then it is fine. But what i think is a no no is th... amjs

    That’s fine. I said it was a controversial opinion for a reason. I do think most people’s minds change when they’re older because hindsight is 20/20. It’s a lot easier to have personal bias when you are in the age group. It would be interesting to see if your opinion remains when you are older versus now since I know majority of my friends and even my own opinions have changed just within a few years after graduating high school. I personally like to see things on the side of science rather than personal bias. There’s a reason why there’s an age of consent (which closely relates to brain development and life experiences you don’t encounter until you leave your best known as home and public school except for very rare scenarios that act as outliers) which is what I address in my comment. It’s still r*pe even if the minor gave consent if they had sex with a legal adult. The minor may think they’re mature and may actually be more mature than their peers. Doesn’t change the fact that it’s r*pe. Anyways, I think it’s a worth wild way of looking at things. Just wanted to give you a slightly more in-depth glance of my personal perspective. It’s 100% okay to have different opinions and to let your opinion change or even remain the same as you age. In regards to this story- they are both naive, are evidently very sheltered and toxic to one another, and very sheltered. They are obviously not at the emotionally maturity to give full Informed consent beyond raging hormones that result in impulsive decisions.

    amjs January 23, 2021 7:34 am
    That’s fine. I said it was a controversial opinion for a reason. I do think most people’s minds change when they’re older because hindsight is 20/20. It’s a lot easier to have personal bias when you are... NeverlandIsCalling

    Yep thanks for ur thoughts tho. It’s good to discuss with someone polite on social media

    Atanichii January 26, 2021 6:27 pm

    SO WELL SAID!!!! gosh, i can't even begin about the red flags, like- AAAAAHH!!!!

    Dani_Daan January 31, 2021 5:00 am
    SO WELL SAID!!!! gosh, i can't even begin about the red flags, like- AAAAAHH!!!! Atanichii

    I'm only here because the art is good :>

    Atanichii February 1, 2021 7:12 am
    I'm only here because the art is good :> Dani_Daan

    hahahahahahaha(≧∀≦)
    I'm starting to wonder, is there really anyone here bacause they think it's genuinely good? (▰˘◡˘▰)