I'll always think this way but, Param hasn't done anything wrong. He didn't cheat, but he ...

沈诗恩 January 21, 2021 2:37 pm

I'll always think this way but, Param hasn't done anything wrong. He didn't cheat, but he got swept by his emotions and didn't think through properly. He's stupid for not thinking about the future, but he can have sex with whoever he wants. He feels guilty because he had sex with someone, he doesn't even like the guy, and is going on a date to experiment with someone that likes him.

He can have sex with anyone regardless of hurting people's feelings, but he should've thought about the long-term, rather than the short. Basically, I'm calling his stupid for not thinking smart, but I'm not blaming him.

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    Nonickname January 21, 2021 2:40 pm

    He took advantage of people's feelings. What he did was unethical

    Zoom January 21, 2021 2:41 pm
    He took advantage of people's feelings. What he did was unethical Nonickname

    ^^ yes I also think that too

    Lxnaa January 21, 2021 2:42 pm
    He took advantage of people's feelings. What he did was unethical Nonickname

    He even knew what he was doing but still did it anyway but that been over

    沈诗恩 January 21, 2021 2:45 pm
    He took advantage of people's feelings. What he did was unethical Nonickname

    Taking advantage? He didn't do so. They were only experimenting, not even close to a proper relationship yet.

    Nonickname January 21, 2021 2:49 pm
    Taking advantage? He didn't do so. They were only experimenting, not even close to a proper relationship yet. 沈诗恩

    That doesn't matter. We're not looking at a legal problem here. He knew they both had feelings for him and even though he hadn't decided yet he had sex with them and that's pretty unethical.

    Lxnaa January 21, 2021 3:00 pm
    Taking advantage? He didn't do so. They were only experimenting, not even close to a proper relationship yet. 沈诗恩

    Its him accepting Hwi’s date me note on the sand then going off with blondie. Its him saying he like Hwi but then proceeds to have sex with Blondie. Either way you look at it Param knew what he was doing. Yall treat him like a fucking child who doesn’t know right from wrong THAT MF IS 29. He knew exactly what he was doing leading Hwi on when he could’ve said no from the start

    沈诗恩 January 21, 2021 3:03 pm
    That doesn't matter. We're not looking at a legal problem here. He knew they both had feelings for him and even though he hadn't decided yet he had sex with them and that's pretty unethical. Nonickname

    He can have sex with whoever he wants. He doesn't owe his feelings to anyone, although he does like Hwi.

    沈诗恩 January 21, 2021 3:06 pm
    Its him accepting Hwi’s date me note on the sand then going off with blondie. Its him saying he like Hwi but then proceeds to have sex with Blondie. Either way you look at it Param knew what he was doing. Yal... Lxnaa

    He can have sex with whoever he wants. Does it not make sense? I never treated him that way, I blantly said he was stupid for not thinking things through and regretting if afterwards. He never did anything wrong though. He's not in a relationship with Hwi. Their relationship was only sex, and they were starting to experiment by going on a date.

    Lxnaa January 21, 2021 3:16 pm
    He can have sex with whoever he wants. Does it not make sense? I never treated him that way, I blantly said he was stupid for not thinking things through and regretting if afterwards. He never did anything wron... 沈诗恩

    Hoe what part of the world you live in bc if my ass accept a fucking date me note that means our asses are dating. BC WHAT THE FUCK ELSE WOULD IT MEAN. It said “Date me” not go to dinner with me but fucking date me and his ass accepted. You aint getting the point he can have sex with whoever he wants but he did very wrong by leading Hwi on and playing when with Blondie when he claimed to have feelings for Hwi. Its the basic decency and clearly you saw that Hwi didnt even waste his time clearing a hoe. But anyway

    沈诗恩 January 21, 2021 3:29 pm
    Hoe what part of the world you live in bc if my ass accept a fucking date me note that means our asses are dating. BC WHAT THE FUCK ELSE WOULD IT MEAN. It said “Date me” not go to dinner with me but fucking... Lxnaa

    Dating isn't a relationship. Like I said, it's experimenting. He can date other people, have sex with other people.

    Nonickname January 21, 2021 8:49 pm
    Dating isn't a relationship. Like I said, it's experimenting. He can date other people, have sex with other people. 沈诗恩

    No.. He did wrong by having sex with someone else while dating Hwi. When u are dating you can't do that. You can "experiment" if you are sex buddies but they weren't. Also for me it's obviously wrong to take advantage of mr. Han's feelings and have sex with him when he's so invested in contrast to you who doesn't care. It's morally wrong. So don't give me "he can do whatever he wants" coz we ain't saying it's illegal.

    沈诗恩 January 22, 2021 8:45 am
    No.. He did wrong by having sex with someone else while dating Hwi. When u are dating you can't do that. You can "experiment" if you are sex buddies but they weren't. Also for me it's obviously wrong to take ad... Nonickname

    Mr Han was not taken advantage of. He literally started telling a sob story, then begged for a chance, forced himself on him, and then reminded Param about Param's feeling towards him. Dating is just experimental. Sex is just a plus, and it's almost meaningless. I'm not saying it's fine because it's not illegal, but he can have sex with whoever he wants if he's dating someone. Dating is not a relationship.

    Lxnaa January 22, 2021 1:51 pm
    Mr Han was not taken advantage of. He literally started telling a sob story, then begged for a chance, forced himself on him, and then reminded Param about Param's feeling towards him. Dating is just experiment... 沈诗恩

    “Dating isnt a relationship” Hun if you cant pull people just say that. You talking like humans are lab rats who are just used for experiments. Like maam I starting to get concerned bc ine never hear someone talk so much shit. Like you saying he can have sex with other people while dating someone??? I starting to believe you some old middle aged woman who lets her husband contract diseases and come right back to her. Giving me very much I contract sex diseases for fun. Chile ykw you prolly had some fucked up life and you most likely grew up that way bc Ive never met a more close minded person as you. Hopefully you carry that same energy to the grave alone. Stay safe tho

    沈诗恩 January 22, 2021 2:53 pm
    “Dating isnt a relationship” Hun if you cant pull people just say that. You talking like humans are lab rats who are just used for experiments. Like maam I starting to get concerned bc ine never hear someon... Lxnaa

    Literally search it up. Experimenting isn't a bad thing, you're just finding someone you would be comfortable in a relationship with. Dating is only figuring things out, you're not tied down in a relationship with someone. Hwi and Param never confirmed a relationship, they're just 'dating' or going on a 'date'. Cute assumptions, though.

    Lxnaa January 22, 2021 6:48 pm
    Literally search it up. Experimenting isn't a bad thing, you're just finding someone you would be comfortable in a relationship with. Dating is only figuring things out, you're not tied down in a relationship w... 沈诗恩

    Go ahead and log out for me hun bc you saying all this about experimenting when the shits dont even apply here. Param was claiming all this shit about him liking Hwi and accepted a Date me note. Not a Go to dinner or movie with me. Im pretty sure if they say date me yall are dating and yall are in a relationship. It dont get better than this. “ Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in Western societies whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship”- I googled it by the way and honestly your little experiment point aint making sense atp. Just log out hun you’re embarrassing yourself. Im most likely talking to some 10 year old

    Lxnaa January 22, 2021 6:52 pm
    Literally search it up. Experimenting isn't a bad thing, you're just finding someone you would be comfortable in a relationship with. Dating is only figuring things out, you're not tied down in a relationship w... 沈诗恩

    Im not even going say shit no more to a person who can’t get their head out of their ass and have basic decency to not be a hoe. God bless your stupid soul

    沈诗恩 January 22, 2021 7:12 pm
    Go ahead and log out for me hun bc you saying all this about experimenting when the shits dont even apply here. Param was claiming all this shit about him liking Hwi and accepted a Date me note. Not a Go to din... Lxnaa

    'assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship'. It's not serious, it's only (as your definition states) 'assessing the others suitability'. You're not tied down to a person. You're forgetting that Hwi also liked Mr Han, not just Hwi, or at least he did and believed so. You're embarrassing yourself, since people are not tied down with others when it's dating. It's an open relationship.

    Lxnaa January 22, 2021 11:03 pm
    'assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship'. It's not serious, it's only (as your definition states) 'assessing the others suitability'. You're not tied down to a pe... 沈诗恩

    Im not even going say shit no more to a person who can’t get their head out of their ass and have basic decency to not be a hoe. God bless your stupid soul

    Zoom January 24, 2021 4:23 am
    Im not even going say shit no more to a person who can’t get their head out of their ass and have basic decency to not be a hoe. God bless your stupid soul Lxnaa

    Thank you for trying to explain this to them but they just won't listen. I hear you though and completely agree

    沈诗恩 January 24, 2021 11:07 am
    Thank you for trying to explain this to them but they just won't listen. I hear you though and completely agree Zoom

    Explained poorly, since it was 60% insults. I'll continue to say Param didn't do anything wrong. He's only stupid for not thinking about the future, and that he can have sex with who he wants. Hwi is also just a sex buddy.