I wouldn’t entirely make the boyfriend at fault
Some times ppl around those with mental health problems doesn’t know any thing at all
Even tho there should be signs here and there , but giving that the boyfriend was so busy he couldn’t have noticed it too
I know that he must take care of his partner and he didn’t care for what the partner feelings
But how would he know if his partner never told him anything ?? Like how ?!! He could have sensed it
But I wouldn’t call him manipulative ?!
I do think that he should have been more supportive to the mc music career and he didn’t bother bringing the issue
Yeh I think it is wrong
But the thing is
Some relationships doesn’t work at all even tho love is there
Some relationships aren’t right no matter what
It could be the timing or the person immaturity in that time
So no need to blame the partner before knowing the whole story
But I totally agree with ur first words
The most at fault is dad, period. He’s the one who created this circumstances that made him feel trapped in the first place. When I say the boyfriend is manipulative, I’m talking about his behavior like on chapter 10. He realized something wasn’t right and more than trying to figure out what was going on, he put such a burden in him by saying “without you I’d die” and also self harming in front of him. I think he also needs help. But even so... it created a circumstance where he can’t break up with him without feeling guilty about something happening to him. And so trapping him too. It’s manipulative, at least from my point of view. You can say that he also needs help and all, and it’s true that he does, but that doesn’t mean it’s not manipulative. He knows if he makes him promise to not give up on him under those pretenses that he won’t leave. Also... although he might’ve been immature at the time the things with his dad happened, after all that time, and seeing things fall apart, wouldn’t he think more deeply about what his partner gave up for him and try to be more considerate? Although here I’ll say that since this is incomplete, might be unfair from my part to assume he was never considerate towards him. I’ll wait more and see. But for now, that’s how he comes across to me.
It’s normal to want your relationship not to end but I don’t think this is how you go about it.
What a powerful chapter. So many good and bad things to take from this.
I’m happy to see some mental health care! He couldn’t deal with things so he went to a professional to seek help and the medication (even though it doesn’t solve his problems) it helped him to stay afloat. Sometimes it’s the only thing you can do in that moment, and it’s ok. It’s easy for outsiders to be like: do this or that and it’s solved. But it’s not like that. So I loved seeing this portrayed.
Also, his mom going after him to see him and giving him an escape, even if it’s only temporary, go mama!
Of course the bad it’s the “boyfriend”. So selfish and self-centered. Can’t wait for him to put a definitive end to it, but his behavior is one of those who know how to be manipulative. Makes so frustrated and angry (╯°Д °)╯╧╧.
Overall, I’m loving this ride. I usually don’t get this hyped for shounen ai, but this one caught me. I’m completely fixated on it!!!!