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I don't think being insecure is toxic, i think he's just too insecure to the point that its kind of unhealthy
i never said anything about insecurity. i was talking about their relationship as a whole
I can't tell of it is toxic or not, because uke doesn't really care about seme's insecurity, I mean he care but still accepted him.
The seme is pushy, that all I can say.
from an outsider's point of view, their relationship is definitely toxic. but if the person directly involve said he's fine with the way things are, then who are we to butt in? tbh, if i have a friend like haru, i'd tell him to think more about himself. but you see, everything depends on the people who are in the relationship itself. as a friend, as a family, as a co-worker, you can only watch on the sideline and limit yourself to giving advice from time to time. if those people said they're happy in their relationship despite other people saying it's a toxic one, then be it. different people have different source of happiness anyway.