The uke is hurt and traumatized, alright. But we shouldn't forget how wrong it is for him to leave the seme without giving proper explanation. Just because he didn't want to be hurt then it gives him the right to hurt another? No. If you support the uke in this, you're like basically saying that if someone is traumatized then it's okay if they hurt other people, that it's alright because you are hurt and traumatized so no one will invalidate your feelings if you hurt others while trying to save yours.
The uke is hurt and traumatized, alright. But we shouldn't forget how wrong it is for him to leave the seme without giving proper explanation. Just because he didn't want to be hurt then it gives him the right to hurt another? No. If you support the uke in this, you're like basically saying that if someone is traumatized then it's okay if they hurt other people, that it's alright because you are hurt and traumatized so no one will invalidate your feelings if you hurt others while trying to save yours.