You are a master???? ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
yes :) master/sadist
Well damn,an honour to meet one
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As a Sub I wholeheartedly agree. This relationship gives me chills. Its so wrong and unhealthy. I’m a sub 24/7 with my husband and we’ve been together 10 years. Ive never once felt fear. First of all Sub have all the power we have control to our Doms to make them feel good because it’s what makes us feel good. This type of one sided relationship is not BDSM this is toxic manipulation and it’s disgusting.
*i meant we hand over hand over control to our Doms to make them feel good, because that’s what makes us feel good.
hahaha, you're cute!
10 years! wow, that's amazing. Congrats! Exactly, the relationship only lasts if those involved understand that submissives have as much power as dominants in it. The illusion makes it appear other way, but if it's no longer an illusion, it's no longer healthy.
Yup ten years strong and counting. We do a couple plays ddgl, pet play, even S/m we have a pretty wide range, so I love to see BDSM in BL but when I see stuff like this it makes me sad because I feel peowho are first introduced to BDSM through things like this get the wrong idea. Bdsm already has a negative connotation to it so if this doesn’t dona good job of depicting this relationship is not the norm and there are real masochist and sadist relationships that can be healthy (which they probably wont) it will leave the impression that this is the “norm” for such relationships.
Yes. As a bi person, my sexuality and my fetiches were always represented in a very wrong way... It's really difficult to see stories that treat both things with respect and in a positive way. BUT, as you said, I like to read about it too! When I was young I could not find anything good, now we do have good stories. :)
as a master myself, this is uncomfortable. that type of conversation and situation is extremely exciting. The problem is that such a suggestion should make both, s and m, aroused. And the third person should be aware of the situation and give consent, even if he was not directly part of the play. A 24/7 relashionship still need to be called a play and have safe word. A master should not cause fear in his sub, at least not that kind of fear. I will continue to follow this story 'cause I like the main characters, but I hope that at some point it becomes clear that this kind of "vibe" is not a good example of bdsm ... let's see ...