Lmao she really had no other choice.
ლ(´ڡ`ლ) no matter what she could have said her papa would disagree and since she knows how much she is worth to her papa, she is user her life in the argument. Its childish but she knew that ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ I'd do anything for the baby ~
omay chill
Yo I just realized how long that was #－.－)
woah ok you must have had a personal experience with something like that. I'm sorry if you did. you don't have to feel guilty over a character tho, that's just a bit too much. maybe detach a lil bit?
Yeah i got quite heated sorry.
No it's okay! you were just speaking from experience that's not wrong.
she could have just threatened to elope without his permission or listen to his (very valid) reasoning and explain why he's wrong. gaslighting someone into thinking it's their fault for you about to commit suicide is gross and is a tactic used in abusive relationships to keep the victim with them.
I agree that it's wrong but I think she was trying to scare him not gaslight him (although that's what she did). I don't think eloping would have scared him bc she said she wasn't giving up whether he liked it or not (indirectly threatening elopement) and he just kept arguing with her. I don't know what else she could've said but she shouldn't have used suicide. Maybe she should've threatened to never talk to him again???
Yeah, or just listen to him and explain the situation to him. He thinks she just met him a month ago and is being overly emotional and doesn't know what she's getting into. His opinions are valid and just shutting him down and telling him she'll kill herself unless he agrees isn't at all a good idea. If my fiancee threatened to kill herself in order to marry me I would fucking nope out of there. no way in hell would I ever get along with someone so emotionally volatile that she's willing to threaten her father with her life.
That's true she should've listened bc he was actually abt to say something but she cut him off. He was tryna say something abt the Escliffes (is that how you spell it???) not being compatible with the Duke's family. I wonder if it's bc of a clash in powers but I guess we'll never know since she didn't let him finish. To be honest, she asked him why and didn't even let him start to respond. But overall I think we should just wait to see what happens bc it might not end up being as big as we're making it to be.
And I agree if someone threatened to kill themselves to be with me that'll be a turn off. That's a whole nother level of obsession and selfishness.
Ok so like i really love this story its amazing and protecc abel at all costs but bRUHH WHAT THE FUCK YOU DONT THREATEN PEOPLE WITH SCUICIDE THAT IS LEGIT A DISGUSTING THING TO DO ESPECIALLY TO SOMEONE WHO CARES ABOUT AND LOVES YOU AS MUCH AS YOUR FATHER AT LEAST HEAR HIM OUT DO YOU KNOW WHAT THREATENING SCUICIDE LIKE THAT DOES TO PEOPLE?? IT MAKES THEM SCARED THAT OF THEY DO A SINGLE WRONG THING WITH YOU A PERSON THEY LOVE WILL FUCKING VANISH AND IT'LL BE ALL THEIR FAULT NEVER DO THAT AGAIN I LOVE YOU MC BUT FUCK NO GODS I HOPE HER FATHER IS OKAY I FEEL SO BAD FOR HIM THAT POOR SOUL AND CONSIDEEING THIS IS COMING FROM A WEIRD TEEN WHOS IN THAT PHASE WHERE THEY DISLIKE THEIR PARENTS YOU HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF THINKING AND REFLECTINF TO DO YOU BETTER GET INTO A 90 FUCKIN DEGREE BOW AFTER TJIS shit
Phew. Sorry about that it just made me so mad like literally please dont threaten people with suicide its a disgusting thing to do, my friend once told me she was contemplating it seriously, she didn't even threaten me and i literally panicked so much and cried thinking about her possibly dying that maybe it was my fault if i coulsnt stop her, i cant even imagine how her dad feels, that poor soul. :(