Ugh

Jellyfish January 14, 2021 6:29 am

I don't understand what happened at all. Is this makes sense to anyone?

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    izzy January 14, 2021 4:44 pm

    so basically a person started stalking him, first leaving drink so on... then he saw him with the hood which led to him being super paranoid. then he got his friend to help, friend liked the stalker but knew the stalker didn't like him so he didn't try to get with him, he tells the guy he can't help him anymore BUT that the stalker guy actually really liked him because he said he would hurt him, but he helps him figure out his identity with the whole bar fiasco, one day he comes home and sees him in his apartment, freaks out but he was there and kinda reassured him. he started coming over more often and eventually got to the point where he couldn't handle his desires so he r@ped him, meanwhile at work his friend was really worried about him as well as he met his friends "stalker". the friends stalker was like okie well ima help u if u need it, just give me a call, he ended up going insane after being r@ped, called him and they came up with a plan. they headed to his apartment, bashed him on the head and kidnaped him into his own home but originally they were supposed to go to the hospital, they tied him up so he couldn't get out and basically the plan was to treat him the way he treated him, torture. he couldn't do anything by himself which the victim though would lead him to go insane but like he said, he was insecure and really just needed someone to depend on and lean on, at the end he ends up untying him hearing him crying out in pain in the middle of the night so he was like fuck this shit my beauty sleeps important so he untied him, he ended up getting mad cause his ego was to big and he didn't want to be "pitied" when the man just actually wanted a good nights sleep (although he did pity him in a way) they end up getting together but his plan was to trick him into falling in love with him the whole time only to break his heart to finally when he started loving him he lied to him and said he was going to work when in reality he was moving and getting away from him. he found out, got super upset, followed him, found out the addy and when he got home, completely broke down about how he doesn't want him to leave him and how he needs him. he ends up giving in and they end up together.

    thank you for reading my essay that i put together in like 5 minute better than any school essay i have ever done(⊙…⊙ )

    Jellyfish January 14, 2021 6:38 pm
    so basically a person started stalking him, first leaving drink so on... then he saw him with the hood which led to him being super paranoid. then he got his friend to help, friend liked the stalker but knew th... izzy

    Lmao thank you for the reply I just can't understand how can he love him? Like he got emotionally abused got raped how can he love him?

    izzy January 14, 2021 6:43 pm
    Lmao thank you for the reply I just can't understand how can he love him? Like he got emotionally abused got raped how can he love him? Jellyfish

    personally i feel like its stockholm syndrome but with out the kidnapping part ;-;

    Jellyfish January 14, 2021 7:45 pm
    personally i feel like its stockholm syndrome but with out the kidnapping part ;-; izzy

    I have read it somewhere that stockholm syndrome wasn't really a thing? It was just a mans thought discarding the girls thoughts? Like psychologists don't really approve that theory?

    Jellyfish January 14, 2021 7:52 pm

    In her 2020 treatise on domestic violence See What You Made Me Do, Australian journalist Jess Hill described the syndrome as a "dubious pathology with no diagnostic criteria", and stated that it is "riddled with misogyny and founded on a lie"; she also noted that a 2008 literature review revealed that "most diagnoses [of Stockholm syndrome] are made by the media, not by psychologists or psychiatrists." In particular, Hill's analysis revealed that Stockholm authorities — under direct guidance from Bejerot — responded to the robbery in a way that put the hostages at greater risk from the police than from their captors (hostage Kristin Enmark, who during the siege was granted a phone call with Swedish Prime Minister Olof Palme, reported that Palme told her that the government would not negotiate with criminals, and that "you will have to content yourself that you will have died at your post"); as well, she observed that not only was Bejerot's diagnosis of Enmark made without ever having spoken to her, it was in direct response to her public criticism of his actions during the siege.
    This here is from wikipedia lol I'm really fascinated about this so wanted to share lol sorry

    izzy January 14, 2021 8:30 pm
    In her 2020 treatise on domestic violence See What You Made Me Do, Australian journalist Jess Hill described the syndrome as a "dubious pathology with no diagnostic criteria", and stated that it is "riddled wit... Jellyfish

    wait this actually is interesting lol. i did read something that said something very common like how most diagnoses are made from the media and that the actual mental ilness is very rare to have most cases caused bec they weren't loved in their homes and so when they did get kidnapped it was kinda like they felt they were being loved at least more than they were which leads to-stockholm sydndrome (⌒▽⌒)

    Dhritiravi January 20, 2021 6:49 pm
    so basically a person started stalking him, first leaving drink so on... then he saw him with the hood which led to him being super paranoid. then he got his friend to help, friend liked the stalker but knew th... izzy

    Thanks. I'm not gonna read it anymore... U saved me a sleepless night

    um- January 20, 2021 7:21 pm
    Thanks. I'm not gonna read it anymore... U saved me a sleepless night Dhritiravi

    oh was it cause i spoiled? sorry my bad if i could delete it i would

    Dhritiravi January 21, 2021 3:33 am
    oh was it cause i spoiled? sorry my bad if i could delete it i would um-

    More like the story is too fucked up and although I hate spoilers, I am really glad for this one. So it was a genuine thankyouu

    um- January 21, 2021 5:02 am
    More like the story is too fucked up and although I hate spoilers, I am really glad for this one. So it was a genuine thankyouu Dhritiravi

    Oh ok and sorry again ( ̄∇ ̄")