give yourself more value, honey.
You're not pathetic,... ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
when people feel something wrong and then they tried to solve it, it's mean they are good enough to called "amazing". (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
what you must do is: try to more honest with your feeling toward her and say it, say it, then say it again.
liking or disliking person need no reason, if something going wrong, fix it, speak it with good intention (in order to maintain & continuing good relationship), it's okay if you doing some mistake, fix it, forgive them and then forgive yourself. because people didn't always doing bad things like you can't always doing good things.
I wonder when I can having good english, it's hard to speaking without good english for talking. （￣へ￣）
Thank you so much. I've been having this pain in my chest for a while now. So I'll scrape up my courage and talk honestly with her. Such good advice. You're a very good friend, I can tell. I'll fix this before it's too late! Again, thank you so much.ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
when I give advice like this, it's like I give advice for my-bad-self. I was strange people to begin with, I have difficult time dealing with people because my hard personalities.
but, don't feel pathetic or speak bad about yourself, because you're precious.
I know well that it hard to do but keep try hard and cheer up okay?
I hope you can maintain good relationship with your friend.
We have 3 friends : friends for reason, friends for seasons, and friends for a lifetime.
She is simply not a lifetime friend. True friend is not the one who act up in front you but who still remain your friend when you are not around. Amd lifetime friend is not coming by 'old time friendship'. But people who stay true to us.
Sadly sometimes people can't see how we value them as friend. If you were at fault then you should apologize but if you weren't at fault and she is ignoring you even when you tried to approach her, please just leave her. You will only get sad. Time don't make people friends. Sometimes they just befriended with us for the time being like you did in the family gathering. Having good time in each other company don't mean anything. It just moment.
If you meet her, act normally. If she say hi, you say hi. If she acts like she doesn't know you, then don't approach her. If she was horrible. Then this is the change, she gives you change to break away with her. From being her friend.
Don't torture yourself. And you are not pathetic
Thank you very much. It's so true. I agree with you whole heartedly! But I seriously hope I won't have to see her before I leave. Otherwise, I'll just treat her normally, like you said :)
Yes because it never easy to see someone who was 'part of our life' but now they are not. If it not necessary, then it's better not to meet up. I hope you can find people who can treasure you as you do to them :)
U should just think about wut she's done to you and think if she is still worth ur forgiveness
for a manga website, but I'd like some advice. I have a friend that was once a great friend, but she...became so fake. She doesn't like me anymore and I don't like her anymore. But we're forced to get along when our families meet. I guess we're not 'forced' exactly. It's like our buried friendship comes out and we enjoy each other's company, but as soon as it's over she ignores me when I message her (I never see her otherwise, we're out of school). But yeah, what should I do? I feel like I'm not only lying to her but to myself...damn, that sounds stupid. But yeah, I feel like a coward. Not only that she has so many reasons for me not to like her as a friend. She was so horrible to me for so many years, but every time we have fun, I seem to forgive her. Oh gosh, I'm pathetic. Could anyone tell me how I should react to her next time?