sunhwee literally didn’t do anything wrong in the bdsm part of their relationship. this is literally why i dislike hyesol so much; she’s a shitty dom and is toxic in general. sunhwee (and the other subs) didn’t feel like they could say no during sexual plays and all the subs felt like they had to say yes. in bdsm there needs to be safewords, aftercare, etc, but she failed to do those basic necessities. she manipulated all of them just to protect herself... but from what?? what’s wrong abt feeling genuine sympathy and care for romantic and/or sexual partners??? I’m hoping her backstory is enough to be understandable of her fear to open up, but other than that she’s terrible
sunhwee literally didn’t do anything wrong in the bdsm part of their relationship. this is literally why i dislike hyesol so much; she’s a shitty dom and is toxic in general. sunhwee (and the other subs) didn’t feel like they could say no during sexual plays and all the subs felt like they had to say yes. in bdsm there needs to be safewords, aftercare, etc, but she failed to do those basic necessities. she manipulated all of them just to protect herself... but from what?? what’s wrong abt feeling genuine sympathy and care for romantic and/or sexual partners??? I’m hoping her backstory is enough to be understandable of her fear to open up, but other than that she’s terrible