You're not alone.
Same my guy. Like, at least show minimal effort on some sort of a plot, otherwise might as well just watch porn.
like seriously, I love when they have a amazing plot with smut mixed. and i feel when they have a sex scene in like the first chapter its already destroying that... my only exception is "hold me tight" (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I feel ya,,,it just feels so rushed.(●￣(ｴ)￣●)
yaoi which has a sex scene in the beginning immediately puts me off :/