Uhg... Dear, Brother of the Cool Dad Empor.

Lady Nd9 January 8, 2021 1:43 pm

Let me tell you a short story: «Yvan was walking in a forest and admiring its beauty. After passing by a bluebells field, suddenly an animal attacks him! After that, he ends up spending two weeks in bed with a fever.
Since then he hates bluebells with such a passion, he even finds people who like them disgusting!»
There it is... The ugliness of misassociation.
What hurt Yvan was the bite of the animal, but somehow the bluebells took the hate. ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍
"Uncle", you disagree with the behaviour of the mother; work on transferring your negative energy back where it belongs instead of on the innocent child that was abandoned for ~7years because of the very thing you disagree with. She's not an accomplice to the thing you hate, but another victim of that situation.
Cordially,
A very annoyed (pseudo-)Lady

Responses
    Bomblocatt January 8, 2021 2:59 pm

    That was really such a good analogy. I've always wanted something like this to say but it would always end up super long or too short to be impactful.