i agree he's a coward... But i kinda get it. a line from a song goes : "who said that it's better to have love and lost? I wish that i have never loved." When you want something, sometimes it's easier to just want it. You're scared to make a move because you cant go back. Sure you never know what will happen and for that you should have hope. But really for that you should be scared too. i guess for him it's easier to not start so there's not much to miss. A love that didnt start is different from a love that ended. And really, it's easier if nothing started compared to the heartbreak when it ends. at least with the former there's hope. There's a thought that if you actually try you can be together...
yeah...and i kinda got a feeling from the manga that, the seme already knew about the uke's feeling. But doesn't want to try it out in fear that, the relationship might end someday, if they started it. Well....that is a big "IF". For all i know i would have jumped at the chance if i had even a slightest hint of my crush having the same feeling as me. I mean isn't that normal??? ( ̄へ ̄)
Yeah...that was also my question! Fortunately "Lalala" who replied 1st here gave a reasonable explanation for that, which i kinda get but can't get my head around it! To me the seme belongs to a completely different species. Don't know either it's me who is abnormal or the seme ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ Anyways, to each his own i guess...(︶︿︶)
I don't know if the mangaka was trying to be smart or different or whatever, but i honestly don't get it! I mean, why would you refuse the guy you have had a crush on for 3 freaking years??!! Sorry to those who like the seme, but i could think of him as nothing but a coward. Just because he "thinks" it won't work out in the future he doesn't give it a shot at all? You never know something for sure until you have tried.