Why are people annoyed at Param? Because he's not dating Hwi, he can do whatever he wants....

沈诗恩 January 7, 2021 1:33 pm

Why are people annoyed at Param? Because he's not dating Hwi, he can do whatever he wants. He didn't 'betray' him.

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    Godnessofcuteness January 7, 2021 1:36 pm

    But he just said that he has feeling for Hwi. So eveb though they are not in a relationship, its still a cheating

    jordy January 7, 2021 1:36 pm

    hwi asked param on a date and confessed his feelings and param accepted the date...and then went to go sleep with mr han... you wouldnt be hurt? also, i get it param is an adult and can do what he wants but this will have negative effects on hwi and params relationship ...this whole story weve been winded up to seeing param and hwis relationship and now weve hit a major shift it makes sense for people to be upset

    沈诗恩 January 7, 2021 1:37 pm
    But he just said that he has feeling for Hwi. So eveb though they are not in a relationship, its still a cheating Godnessofcuteness

    He's not cheating just because he has feelings for Hwi... They're not even together.

    沈诗恩 January 7, 2021 1:40 pm
    hwi asked param on a date and confessed his feelings and param accepted the date...and then went to go sleep with mr han... you wouldnt be hurt? also, i get it param is an adult and can do what he wants but thi... jordy

    He only asked him on a date, they never actually confirmed a relationship, nor are they dating. He's still single, he can experiment. It's only a problem if he did this without true feelings for Hwi, or they were in a relationship.

    沈诗恩 January 7, 2021 1:41 pm
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    He only liked him because he was kind to him at first... You can't choose the person you have feelings for.

    Godnessofcuteness January 7, 2021 2:44 pm

    So lets say I love someone but I had sex with another person. Isnt it cheating wit emotional. U love him, you are connected with him, but do u think you can do everything because you are not in a relationship. Its a bullshit.

    Godnessofcuteness January 7, 2021 2:45 pm

    I would feel ashamed if i said I have feeling for someone but then had sex with another person

    Nacho mama January 7, 2021 2:47 pm
    But he just said that he has feeling for Hwi. So eveb though they are not in a relationship, its still a cheating Godnessofcuteness

    Lmao I feel bad for the people you “date” in the future. Agreeing to go on a date with somebody and/or having sex with them doesn’t mean you owe them anything. Somebody telling you they like you also doesn’t mean you’re obligated to return their feelings or commit to them. That’s a personal decision so trying to say Param owes Hwi to be loyal just because Hwi said he likes him and asked him on a date completely takes away Param’s free will. It isn’t cheating unless both parties have agreed to be in an exclusive relationship and one steps outside that dishonestly. Your welcome for this life lesson

    Godnessofcuteness January 8, 2021 2:37 am

    Actually Im really sad for people you are gonna date. While you have feeling for them, you can have sex with another man and that wont make u uncomfortable.btw I didt say Hwi owes him.

    Nacho mama January 8, 2021 3:28 am
    Actually Im really sad for people you are gonna date. While you have feeling for them, you can have sex with another man and that wont make u uncomfortable.btw I didt say Hwi owes him. Godnessofcuteness

    Lol if we’re not in a committed relationship and they’re not fine with it they don’t have to stick around

    沈诗恩 January 8, 2021 12:09 pm
    So lets say I love someone but I had sex with another person. Isnt it cheating wit emotional. U love him, you are connected with him, but do u think you can do everything because you are not in a relationship. ... Godnessofcuteness

    It's not love. It's only feelings that Param developing recently. There's no deep connection yet.

    沈诗恩 January 8, 2021 12:10 pm
    I would feel ashamed if i said I have feeling for someone but then had sex with another person Godnessofcuteness

    Well that's just you. Param also had feelings for Mr Han, or at least he believed he did.

    沈诗恩 January 8, 2021 12:11 pm
    Actually Im really sad for people you are gonna date. While you have feeling for them, you can have sex with another man and that wont make u uncomfortable.btw I didt say Hwi owes him. Godnessofcuteness

    Having feelings isn't a commitment to another person. Param thought he liked Mr Han, so having sex with the person he likes wouldn't have made him uncomfortable.

    沈诗恩 January 8, 2021 12:14 pm
    Lmao I feel bad for the people you “date” in the future. Agreeing to go on a date with somebody and/or having sex with them doesn’t mean you owe them anything. Somebody telling you they like you also does... Nacho mama

    Thank you, it's a relief to know people still have common sense.

    Nacho mama January 8, 2021 2:04 pm
    Well that's just you. Param also had feelings for Mr Han, or at least he believed he did. 沈诗恩

    Fr fr. He liked Han in the first place, so by that person’s reasoning, didn’t he “cheat” on Han when he started fucking Hwi?

    Nacho mama January 8, 2021 2:06 pm
    Thank you, it's a relief to know people still have common sense. 沈诗恩

    Thank you