i think we all agree that param is being a little disappointing right now

mmm... just cause ur going on a date doesn't mean ur committed. Hwi himself said he couldn't say it properly. And bc of the lack of a proper discussion on exclusivity, or even what the relationship is, I don't think Param is obligated to anyone. Param has even made it clear he has feelings for both of them. I don't see the problem regardless of who u want him to end up with

Param himself said he shouldn't be doing "this" because he has feelings for someone else. So, even if you don't see an issue with it, Param did (even though he still went through with it).
But that's besides the point.

didn't he say the same thing when he started out with Hwi? Yeah it just seems like ppl are mad at param rn bc they prefer Hwi. Like I get ur preference, but I think the hate is strange.

I agree that people's bias for Hwi definitely affects their opinion towards Param, but I suspect his feelings for Mr. Han are more on the lines of lust and not love. I saw another comment about the love triangle being better for Param's character development and it sure brought me to simmer down and reflect on calling Param a "manwhore". As for the hate, I think people are just expressing their opinions on the characters just like they would on any other story. But at the end of the day, it was meant to be a love triangle trope so there's nothing we can really do about it but sit back and watch lol. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

It's different here when Param thinks about it he said that he hated what Han did for him and being a player and hurting his feelings then he said " but now I'm doing the same thing with Hwi I'm not different ftom him " you can understand what's wrong now also going oin a date with Hwi just day after fucking Han is a bit toxic. Honestly I don't want him and Hwi to end up together since I think Hwi deserves much better.