They often don’t have any other chances. I mean a gay man wouldn’t want to marry a woman for sure. Their families are the ones that force them to do so because they want them to have a “normal” family
I see where you’re coming from but coming out is really very hard. I honestly don’t know how it feels to hide being gay and i can only imagine the amount of courage it takes for them to come out. I like you’re intentions but we should also try to understand that their circumstances aren’t any easier considering how prejudiced our society still is. Coming out for them could either be 0 or 100 and that’s just for the people they’re close with. Imagine coming out to society
if they don't want to say that they are gay it's okay but as long as they don't marry a woman and then hurt her by cheating with man. It hurt bro...
yeah I know that, but don't hurt other people just because you're scared, it's better to be alone or reject your parents' wishes if you're asked to get married.
I know it's sad, I also have friends whose parents don't know if he's gay and he's confused, but only one request I have, don't hurt other people just because of your needs, you better ask a your girl friend to get married temporarily then get divorced , or whatever is better than getting married and having an affair.
I know there are many people who disagree with my opinion.
Yeah but you know that they get pressure from their families or they even kick them out if they don’t marry a woman so yeah. Ofc its shitty for the woman but they have it also hard because they can’t live a happy life either.
I don’t get why you guys are trying to justify cheating because someone is scared to come out. Cheating and coming out are two VERY different things. It’s absolutely fine if someone isn’t ready to come out, but it doesn’t mean you can just cheat on someone. I guess I can see where you guys are coming from though.
It took a great willpower for you to resist against what supposed to be "the norms" in your vicinity, and it will worsen especially if you live in a more conservative country
But if its really as the man said and the wife knows that hes sleeping around and is okay with it, then it's not cheating it's just a semi-open marriage
I'm a girl, I support you gay people and I've never seen that disgusting. but if you like men but marry women just to cover yourself up and hurt women sorry it makes me sick and hates you, if you are gay you have to face it don't hurt other people by cheating. That is disgusting