A Really Long Rant

沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 1:38 pm

I reread everything, and I concluded that Param isn't at fault. This rant is only to defend Param, since I don't believe he's in the wrong.

We never see Hwi and Param confirm their feelings for each other. He's not hurting Hwi purposefully, nor do they have a personal relationship - they're only sex friends.

As for the 'Date' I thought it was the start of their relationship, but it's completely different. Dating is more open, you can explore your choices. However, a relationship, you're committed to each other. Param is allowed to date other people, he isn't cheating.

Param can't be blamed for 'choosing' Mr Han either. In the last two chapters, we see Param reject him multiple times. Maybe if a certain someone understood what rejection means, they wouldn't use their sad sob backstory to excuse his behaviour, and manipulate Param.

Responses
    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 1:40 pm

    Don't blame Param because he's being manipulated. Manipulation is not something he can control.

    asuya December 31, 2020 1:43 pm
    Don't blame Param because he's being manipulated. Manipulation is not something he can control. 沈诗恩

    i agree with you :)

    Nao Ren December 31, 2020 1:47 pm

    Spoiler:
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    Plottwist Param will feel like shit later about what he is about to do in next ch.
    Angst for all, free angst! Sign up for some more angst soon ! Happy New Year!
    Guild feelings for donations since Param is feeling a lot of it!

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 1:50 pm

    Uhmm, Hwi had been telling Param how he felt tho, Param knew exactly how Hwi feels for him and was even starting to want Hwi getting horny solely because of him. Also, Param said so himself that he likes someone else (other than Han) and HE KNEW himself that what he and Han did was wrong, hence why he got soooo guilty when he went on the date with Hwi and their date got ruined.

    He may have not done it on purpose, but he did hurt Hwi. He may not be the only one to blame, but he played a part also (a big part). So he really isn’t innocent.

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 1:56 pm
    Uhmm, Hwi had been telling Param how he felt tho, Param knew exactly how Hwi feels for him and was even starting to want Hwi getting horny solely because of him. Also, Param said so himself that he likes someon... Sarooraay

    Also, he could’ve just stopped but didn’t. Let’s face it, Param wasn’t thinking with his head..he used his other head and that was his biggest mistake. And now he’s sooo regretting what he did because *SPOILER*








    He wants Hwi, but Hwi never contacted him again after telling Param that they shouldn’t mert ever again.

    Binbin December 31, 2020 2:07 pm
    Also, he could’ve just stopped but didn’t. Let’s face it, Param wasn’t thinking with his head..he used his other head and that was his biggest mistake. And now he’s sooo regretting what he did because... Sarooraay

    Do you have the link for the raws?

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 2:35 pm
    Do you have the link for the raws? Binbin

    I read it @ Lezhin korea

    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 2:48 pm
    Uhmm, Hwi had been telling Param how he felt tho, Param knew exactly how Hwi feels for him and was even starting to want Hwi getting horny solely because of him. Also, Param said so himself that he likes someon... Sarooraay

    Not exactly. I read through, he always brushed them off as jokes. Param said he liked someone else. He's been hurt by Mr Han a lot, so he rejects him. He's not in a relationship with Hwi. He isn't guilty if he accepts someone else.

    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 2:49 pm
    Also, he could’ve just stopped but didn’t. Let’s face it, Param wasn’t thinking with his head..he used his other head and that was his biggest mistake. And now he’s sooo regretting what he did because... Sarooraay

    Did you not read? He couldn't just stop. He was being manipulated, he didn't want this. He only realises it afterwards.

    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 2:50 pm
    i agree with you :) asuya

    Thanks for being the only one to reply to me with a working brain, I'm starting to think people are insane. :)

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 2:52 pm
    Thanks for being the only one to reply to me with a working brain, I'm starting to think people are insane. :) 沈诗恩

    So you’re saying just because I don’t agree with you I’m stupid? Or my brain isn’t working?

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 2:55 pm
    Did you not read? He couldn't just stop. He was being manipulated, he didn't want this. He only realises it afterwards. 沈诗恩

    Yes he was manipulated, but we shouldn’t deny the fact that he used his “dicc” to think. He literally said “whatever” and let his horny-ness lead him to make a mistake. It takes two to tango, he gave consent, he wasn’t forced. He knew what he was doing was wrong.

    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 2:55 pm
    So you’re saying just because I don’t agree with you I’m stupid? Or my brain isn’t working? Sarooraay

    It's not meant literally. (The brain part at least) But yes, if you're blaming someone for being manipulated, it's quite stupid.

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 2:55 pm
    So you’re saying just because I don’t agree with you I’m stupid? Or my brain isn’t working? Sarooraay

    Or flat out saying I’m insane?

    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 2:58 pm
    Yes he was manipulated, but we shouldn’t deny the fact that he used his “dicc” to think. He literally said “whatever” and let his horny-ness lead him to make a mistake. It takes two to tango, he gave ... Sarooraay

    He gave in, but that's not proper consent. He had to be told that he likes Mr Han to actually go through with it. If you're using someone's feelings against them to make them give in, that's taking advantage of them. What he was doing wasn't wrong anyways. He isn't in a relationship with Hwi. He and Hwi are only sex friends.

    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 2:59 pm
    Or flat out saying I’m insane? Sarooraay

    It's a figure of speech. Of course you're not literally insane. It's not hard to figure out.

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 3:09 pm
    It's not meant literally. (The brain part at least) But yes, if you're blaming someone for being manipulated, it's quite stupid. 沈诗恩

    Or I’m just saying that Param isn’t entirely innocent

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 3:12 pm
    It's a figure of speech. Of course you're not literally insane. It's not hard to figure out. 沈诗恩

    So what are you trying to say about the people who don’t share the same opinions with you? What was your point on saying “the only one ti reply to me with a working brain” what did you really mean about it if not that? Please enlighten me, like I’m seriously asking, not trying to fight or anything.

    Sarooraay December 31, 2020 3:14 pm
    He gave in, but that's not proper consent. He had to be told that he likes Mr Han to actually go through with it. If you're using someone's feelings against them to make them give in, that's taking advantage of... 沈诗恩

    Again, if what he did wasn’t wrong...then why does he feel bad? Why did he feel guilty when he saw Hwi during their date? Why did he cry and regret doing it with Han? Days after Hwi told him to never see each other again?

    沈诗恩 December 31, 2020 3:16 pm
    Or I’m just saying that Param isn’t entirely innocent Sarooraay

    'He could've stopped but didn't' - Well here's the thing, he was being manipulated. Even so, if he wasn't being manipulated, and just agreed, I would still see his as innocent. He isn't in a relationship with Hwi. Mr Han is most likely hurt because Param and Hwi had sex too.