There is men who quite enjoy being dommed! So it isn't gross as long as there is consent. This story has no consent but I'm into a thing called Consensual nonconsent...aka fake forced sex but this is forced forced but since it is fake I'm into it. Femdom is just women who like to dominate men, it doesn't come down to just scared women it's just chicks who are into it! Dominatrix is just more BDSM while femdom it just comes to power play. Dominatrix invokes pain, while fandom is just the man being a bottom. This specific femdom is pegging, men who like it from the behind! Hahaha knowledge bomb.
Thank you so much for explaining. Unfortunately the stories I've come across always showed the female having issues. Whether it's a past abusive relationship or even this one where the female succubus has a fear of sex. I think more stories should be written where the woman and the man simply enjoys it with no inhibitions then maybe people won't instantly have negative impressions. I don't find BDSM or Femdom being a bad thing. And there are actually men and women who love to be dominated. My motto about most things is if you like it, I love it regardless to whatever it is or if it's a hard pass for me.
I was introduced to the word Femdom through a few other manga/manwa's I was reading. Some compared it to being a Dominatrix. But from what I understand, a Dominatrix is a one who issues out pleasurable pain to a willing partner where she is simply the one in control. Whereas the representation of Femdom that I've seen are usually emotionally scarred, sexually and/or gender repressed female who are taking their anger and frustration out on men regardless to if he is willing or not to feel a sense of empowerment. Honestly, I can't decide if this is healthy or extremely toxic. Perhaps I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this because I'm often told that men find me intimidating and yet I can allow myself (actually enjoy) being dominanted while still retaining a strong presence.