During the confrontation, it was so refreshing to the point that I was physically stressed from anticipating a flight response. I am just so used to either one of them walking out on the conversation. Somehow, it had an air of maturity because they lack that impulsiveness and set aside their pride or stubborness.
It's just a little disappointing to meet another seme who deliberately manipulates the uke into submitting because the seme wanted to save his own ass. I thought we were over the lies, but I guess the seme just priotize his ass over talking it out to his partner that he didn't want to give his ass. (We can't force someone into something they don't like. Besides, the uke accepts being the receiver anyways. I just wished he'd be honest about it instead of lying and giving false hopes that he'd give his ass. )
During the confrontation, it was so refreshing to the point that I was physically stressed from anticipating a flight response. I am just so used to either one of them walking out on the conversation. Somehow, it had an air of maturity because they lack that impulsiveness and set aside their pride or stubborness.
It's just a little disappointing to meet another seme who deliberately manipulates the uke into submitting because the seme wanted to save his own ass. I thought we were over the lies, but I guess the seme just priotize his ass over talking it out to his partner that he didn't want to give his ass. (We can't force someone into something they don't like. Besides, the uke accepts being the receiver anyways. I just wished he'd be honest about it instead of lying and giving false hopes that he'd give his ass. )