Why are you responding to such an old post? I was trying to say, perhaps not as diplomatically as I should have, that not all men are rapists, that there's plenty of good men who want to form loving healthy relationships with women. I offended this woman by not believing all of her words. I believed most of it, and by the end I was convinced of her sincerity. If I didn't say it, I apologize. My defenses go up, maybe too high, because I've heard so much talk of how bad men are. We aren't all bad. I don't think most of us are. Look, I didn't read back over everything here. I remember this talk, but I don't remember everything that was said. I don't want to see everything and maybe react by saying the wrong thing again. I know that I partly reacted to being called an idiot. I do think about these issues, and sometimes I'm in the middle of processing things when my feelings get hurt, and sometimes I react. I do have feelings. I wanted to say that men have feelings. It's not all cold blooded cave men running around. I am just as much of a jerk as any of the rest, though. lol Sometimes I say the wrong things and regret it later, so please pardon me if you can find it in your heart.
I do like women, and I do have a lot of sisters who I worry about way too much that they might be assaulted. That brings up some hostile, maybe irrational, feelings of protection in me. It is a bit scary to think what I might want to do to any guy who would hurt them. Hopefully my reactions would be wanting to help my family instead of beating the shit out of some bastard. I'm talking too much here, and you might just come back at me still mad at me still. I hope not.
If this lady, Dissidia, sees this in her notifications, I hope you're doing well and I ask that you forgive my words if they offended you.
...the dude fcking me while I was passed out drunk didn’t make me cum. I once had a guy fck my while I was passed out and on my period and his stupid dick shoved my tampon in so far I thought I’d have to go to the ER; which I would have rather died then do. It was pretty horrific getting that shit out. This happened to me so much I even came up with a test to figure out if a guy was safe. I’d pretend to pass out alone and see what happened. At least half the guys failed. Really just ruined what little trust I still had in straight, cis dudes. Just a word of warning; if you’re female and want to drink, have a posse of good friends to have your back. Way to many guys see a drunk chick the way a lion sees a wounded antelope. Prey.