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There's not gonna be a 3p like that so plz, this is one of the few mangas where the love is so frickin sweet
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Well, the uke gave birth to both the Seme’s children...
So...
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but uh, i mean, ok fine there is some 3p but the first children are um 'made' with only the father-seme and the uke while the other seme was gone and i haven't gotten to the other semes children part yet so idk, but what i meant was that if u read the novel you'll realize its the most wholesome 3p ever. theres no leaning towards one or the other, theres no toxic jealousy, theres only respect for uke and love for both semes
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I see. I guess I just can’t separate my personal thoughts from a fictional story.
I just really feel like it’s an indecisive aspect from all parties, but mostly on the Ukes part.
I mean, if you were the one who is centered and showered with love from two people, then how cone you can’t choose between them?
Why settle in having the two of them mate with you and even carry their children?
So more or less, you are mates with the two Seme’s.
So I’m really curious on the point of view of the Uke.
Does he truly and genuinely love both of them?
Or does he only feel grateful towards the Bear Seme who saved him and confuses it with love? I don’t know.
As I said, it’s just me having difficulties understanding 3P concepts no matter how “wholesome” is the portrayal.
Because the main question is “Why can’t you choose between them?”
In poly relationships it not just 2 people loving one person all party involved love each other so it not really about choosing between them because all of you are in love.
Based on a psychology research, a polygamous person is often mentally unstable.
They often crave to be loved by many this resulting to polygamy.
I kind of understand it now because of that.
Which led me to feel bad for both Seme, or at least for one of them.
I know this is a fictional story, but I just kinda don’t like that the Uke is with both of them instead of choosing one.
It’s just me though.
Bit en again, the portrayal of 3p here is quite fair and wholesome, so I guess that kinda compensates to it?
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I forgot to mention this, but in this universe there are things called [bans] or [mates] (basically fated pair if u think about Omegaverse) because in this world there is literally only males. So some are animus (omega) and rest are anima (alpha). And our little adorable uke here is an animus and the 2 semes are anima. The uke has 2 [mates], the semes, and its proven by the fact that both semes magical energy are compatible with the uke. For more info literally just read the novel...
I see.
So, is it safe to say that he truly, like really genuinely love both the Semes?
I’m really scared to read stories with 3P because it gives me unspeakable emotions that I hate.
But if the Uke really do love both of them, then I’d feel at peace.
I say yes! True emotions are shown throughout this story (novel and manga.) From the beginning, it's clear how much the uke loves them. Loved your comments, if we're being honest... the uke is kind of unstable—though even if he were completely stable, the two seme's would still be his mates. Have a good one! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
I kinda got the gist of the story, but I was never a fan of 3p honestly.
Like, is the love really genuine?
It seems so insincere.
Is it indecisiveness?
How can you choose two people to love and have sex with?
Shouldn’t there only be one?
In the case of the story, is the Uke truly in love with both Semes, or does he only love one of them, but harbors lustful satisfaction from the other, this the inability to decide.
Does he feel obligated and indebted to Gail (1st Seme) for saving him, but also harbors feelings for Douglas?
I guess I wouldn’t understand because of the lack of empathy brought by my insufficient experience in love.
Please don’t hate me, I’m really just curious...
Can someone please explain to me how the concept of 3p works in terms of love?