I dont know about you but a fair bit of people have been very vocal about POTN lately and Byeonduck has seen the negative feedback she has been getting as proven on her twitter, so yes the author is seeing these type comments when done in large numbers. Also I have a right to comment and share my thoughts on something I have invested time and money on. People review products all the time, therefore I feel I am entitled to share my thoughts on it. New BL stories will stop having the same normalised toxic traits when people stop normalising it. More people these days are speaking out about this and times are changing. By accepting the way things are nothing will change, using toxicity as a plot device is a lazy way of writing and you shouldn't become a writer if you can't produce a story without abuse (if the abuse isn't relevant).
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA I CANT BELIEVE PPL ARE SAYING THIS ISN'T TOXIC. BRUH THIS IS THE RECIPE FOR TOXIC RELATIONSHIP. THE VERY DEFINITION OF TOXIC LMAOO