Justified Cheating?

Kei_S September 9, 2015 9:50 pm

Like many others, I was also pissed off by the last chapter's seme's cheating and his logic in general. I mean, taking a lover who cheated on you once is hard enough, so how about someone who did it to you 5 times?! That's just... no! However, I also disliked how the uke justified the seme's cheating by comparing it to his affair with Hadaka-san before.

Because, even though Hadaka cheats on his wife, he doesn't seem to have plans on filing a divorce at all since he says his wife is actually important to him (dodging the question if he loves her). It's like, when he was having an affair with Hadaka, he was aware that Hadaka will never be serious enough, and would still, no matter what, come back to the wife at the end of the day. Somehow, he may have been jealous of his wife, for he was the only one he treasures above all his affairs.

So, in his relationship with Kei, he finally felt like he had the role of the wife whose husband cheats a lot, but never seriously. Since he always comes back to him after all, he just had to appreciate the seme more, because he knows that no matter how many times he cheats, he'll still come back to him --- but then of course, he'd appreciate him better if he stopped cheating altogether. Ugh.

Well, since Kei uses cheating to test the uke's love for him, he has a really big problem regarding insecurity. I think that, if it's not addressed and dealt with properly, he'd still do more annoying stuff in the future. I disliked how it was brushed off by simply getting them back together even after the uke kept saying they're over.

WHY?!

The seme didn't seem remorseful at all. He had fun and felt relieved everytime the uke took him back after cheating, but he didn't consider his feelings at all. And, when the uke was finally threatened by one of his affairs, by being pushed off the stairs, Kei said he was shocked for being unable to catch him, but did you feel his guilt at all? It may be so that he chased after the assailant to prevent him from attacking the uke again in the future, but the way he left him no matter how much the uke stopped him was really unfair. The least he could do was reassure him of what he'd actually do! That seme had too much confidence (ironically, despite being so insecure) that he felt like, no matter what he did to the uke, he wouldn't be able to get rid of him. It's a very unhealthy relationship.

I would've been more relieved if I saw that seme suffering from the consequences of his actions and if the uke didn't remain a pushover. I actually think the last chapter's very interesting, but could've been more developed. Because, we could see that despite the cheating, they actually "love" each other, so we could've cheered for them more to get back together if only they learnt past their mistakes. After all, everyone makes mistakes, but only those who learn from them may be really worth fighting for.

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Oh well, I just realized all the couples had cheating involved, but the first two ukes we smart enough not to end up with those who cheated on them, and found the semes who really treasured them.

Responses
    Kei_S September 9, 2015 9:54 pm

    but the first two ukes were* smart enough

    Salvadora September 13, 2015 7:40 pm

    So right! Like who would ever trust someone again after being cheated on many times ugghh (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸

    Oiichika October 14, 2015 3:42 pm

    im reallyyyyy agreeeeeeeeee with you!!!!!!!!!! omg im so fucking pissed. he said "it feels different after with someone else" that seme is a fucking retarded asshole.

    lucy03 November 3, 2015 3:30 pm

    (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ you are reading my mind me too i thought that the uke should be with that guy in suit, and that the seme will be with another person who will let him cheat everytime ( my idea) but still if he won't cheat anymore would be very great and he also needs to find a job(● ̄(エ) ̄●)