being a fudanshi doesn't mean you're gay... but what if you get hard while reading a bl, d...

same i want to know if im gay or not and then i try to go into this one popular boy at my school and i tell him to kiss me as a joke(lol) then when i go into my room remember that he kiss me i feel nothing at all but slightly yknow hard haha

It’s ok to get hard when reading yaoi or any type of mature comic, if you’re confused about your sexuality you might just be bisexual or pansexual and there’s nothing wrong with that. I hope this helps you :D

Don’t feel pressured to put yourself in a box dude, just experience life for what it is. Anime and manga is fiction. When it comes to “spicy stuff” that’s kinda what it’s meant to do haha~ lots of people with a variety of different sexualities read/watch media with a bunch of different fantasies. That goes for straight people as well. Just don’t stress~ read what u enjoy and fuck everyone else

I mean the scenes do be erotic so its reasonable to get turned on. Its just the BL's are really idealistic and that they portray traits we want to have so we tend to wish for that life. But I mean sexual orientation is never clear, sometimes you like girls, sometimes you like boys, sometimes you hate both, and sometimes you love everyone. It got very heavy for me so I just decided to not label it anything so I can like who I like. So basically..... idk what im trying to say, life is confusing. I say just like who you like regardless because the world is too unpredictable to worry about society and their enforced gender construct. If its unsafe, then just do it by yourself.

Why would u hate ur life just cause of that? (￣∇￣")
AND you might actually be bi(?)
I actually sometimes think that we all are bi:|

felt.

I mean you might be either bi or pan



Or you can be just horny ╮(￣▽￣)╭

hahhahaha seriously i get hard all the time when i read BLs, especially the sex scenes.. cuz i read everything even the pant, moan, everything... reading these stories made me scared of loving anyone cuz i tend to avoid interaction with anybody even to my close friends cause of my anxiety... but reading yaois made me calm and forget real word love (romantically) anyone thanks guys mwah

omg!...when i was starting watching BL, i thought i was the "only guy" who likes MLM stuffs and had curiosity for do that xD, ironically there was also the start of my "sexuality discover era", i mean, i knew that what do you see/like/do doesnt mean that you are this or that (which is curious cuz when a girl is discovered with BL stuffs is perceived as lesbian and pervert, but when a man is discovered with Yuri/WLW things is just a pervert but not queer assumed) (╯°Д °)╯╧╧