i don’t like the people who are saying we should seek help because we find this agreement okay, and they find it “rapey”. finding it rapey is the whole point of their newly found sexual relationship. tamaki’s guilt stops him from wanting to do anything sexual, especially when he’s alone. Shii wants to help him get over that by making is seem like he’s raping him. therefore, tamaki isn’t breaking the rules of not having sex he made for himself, someone else is breaking them for him. he’ll get used to the feeling, and not feel guilty anymore. tamaki is traumatized and scared of the feeling he gets when he’s aroused, he’s not asexual as he hinted himself by saying hes his mother’s son (he gets horny just as much as she does). this agreement is psychologically one of the best ways for tamaki to get over his trauma.
i don’t like the people who are saying we should seek help because we find this agreement okay, and they find it “rapey”. finding it rapey is the whole point of their newly found sexual relationship. tamaki’s guilt stops him from wanting to do anything sexual, especially when he’s alone. Shii wants to help him get over that by making is seem like he’s raping him. therefore, tamaki isn’t breaking the rules of not having sex he made for himself, someone else is breaking them for him. he’ll get used to the feeling, and not feel guilty anymore. tamaki is traumatized and scared of the feeling he gets when he’s aroused, he’s not asexual as he hinted himself by saying hes his mother’s son (he gets horny just as much as she does). this agreement is psychologically one of the best ways for tamaki to get over his trauma.