U-Um...

Thelostsoul December 25, 2020 6:34 am

I'm sorry but I have a hard time understanding how someone can love someone but still have sex with other people. While I get that it is the seme's job, I can't help but doubt his love for the uke. My head/heart is unable to process it. I really hope I haven't offended anybody. This is only my personal opinion. I am 100% open to change my mind if anyone would like to respond! I believe this because of my parents... its an opinion based on trauma ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

Also, can someone lmk if the seme continues to work as a pornstar after they start to date? I will stop reading if so... I don't want to be that one person who reads the story and complains every chapter.

Responses
    Spamalot December 25, 2020 7:05 am

    You expressed your reactions in a respectable manner, opening discussion of opinions. I don't agree but I'm giving you thumbs up. I can understand how you feel because the intimacy in sex is very personal and not everyone is capable of compartmentalizing. You probably represent the majority.

    Confusion December 25, 2020 8:00 am

    Please watch this
    https://youtu.be/E5yAROI4nWg

    Thelostsoul December 25, 2020 9:27 am
    You expressed your reactions in a respectable manner, opening discussion of opinions. I don't agree but I'm giving you thumbs up. I can understand how you feel because the intimacy in sex is very personal and n... Spamalot

    Thank you! I appreciate your honesty. Even if it was a dislike, I would appreciate it. At least it is a response.

    Thelostsoul December 25, 2020 9:39 am
    Please watch thishttps://youtu.be/E5yAROI4nWg Confusion

    Yes, I have watched that long ago. I have also read personal stories of sex workers. I'll tell you a bit of why I think like this. My mother was a prostitute. It's how she met my father, accidentally getting pregnant with my oldest brother. At that time they were not in any sort of relationship other than client and worker. Eventually, as time passed my mother began to... fall in love with my father so she proposed a relationship.

    Though reluctant at first, my father accepted due to a realization of his feelings. My mother expressed to my father that she wanted to continue her job but her heart only belonged to him. Since this was how he met her, he accepted. For a while, this worked out until the youngest was born and it had gotten out that my mother emotionally (?) cheated on my father with another client. It was also revealed that the second-born in my family is not my father's child. Not only did my father know of their relationship (as client and worker), he respected it. She broke his trust. Her argument was something along the lines of: I fell for you this way, it was bound to happen with another.

    Of course, I know not everyone is like this... but it's scared me.

    After this, my family fell apart. My pops started drinking and getting abusive. Mom stopped coming home until one day just never coming back. As for my siblings and me, we were tossed through the foster care system. This is how my opinion has formed and why I am so open to changing views... I know my opinion is heavily biased and assumptive thats why.