
the top pushes the bottom to participate in sexual activity with him and to see it as him being forced into it so his guilt in having sexual feelings can be suppressed. there's dubious consent in both the relationship and in the play itself, so trauma or not, this method still imitates rape.
rapeplay one of the more extreme plays, but as long as one participates in it with explicit consent then it's completely okay. however, it's still intense and a little taboo, which is why you see many commenters saying that this is a little too much or they should slow down. don't see OP's comment as an insult; it's a legit concern with valid reasoning behind it.

There is nothing about this that is the best possible way. Please don't tell me you think this is what this is. This is moving much too fast and this entire sexual act was still filled guilt and shame. What about verbally teaching Tamaki about sex and how he shouldn't feel shame about having sexual urges and how they are natural and fully acknowledging that his situation is abnormal and NOT HIS FAULT. What about filling sex with positive thoughts and not making it seem dirty and shameful to him????? How is being a pushy motherfucker who did not have and VERBAL CONSENT jerking him off and saying "only I will see this," and "this is our secret," the best possible way?
They need one cause if they are gonna roleplay r*pe. There needs to be a limit ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭